Women often tell me that my method of dating sounds like a lot of work.

And it is!

I’m always just a little surprised that this is a problem.

We do other things that are a lot of work all the time because we want the results, such as:

Excelling in our careers

Taking care of our health and fitness

Raising children

Maintaining our homes and possessions

Running marathons, climbing mountains, etc

We understand that those things require effort.

I get it though.

We’re weaned on chick flicks that tell us that love is magical and will just happen one of these days, which is total BS, but very tempting to believe.

Because who wouldn’t want to?

It would be nice if Santa Claus was real too, but wishing he was is not productive.

So, I want to make a deal with you right now.

If you really want love in your life, accept the fact that it will require some work and this is OK. 

Then decide if you are willing to do the work or not.

If you aren’t, then stop feeling bad about it or wishing it were different. 

There are some things that are a lot of work that you’re probably never going to do and that is 100% fine.

You have decided to focus your efforts elsewhere and that is a perfectly good decision.

Love is not going to just happen to you any more than waking up as the CEO of Microsoft, and that is OK.

But if you do decide to do the work, then let’s get to it.

Decide that you will find a great guy and you’re going to do everything in your power to make it happen.

Focus your efforts on things that will actually help you reach your goals instead of flailing around hoping for lightning to strike.I can absolutely help you do this.

Learning how to date effectively is a total game-changer and will literally take years off your wait time.

I have a great free resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

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