Let's be honest: we've all done it. Given one kid more grace than the other, bent the rules for someone we like, cut a team member extra slack because it's easier.

You tell yourself it's no big deal, but here's the truth: every time you do that, somebody else feels it.

In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on favouritism and how it shows up everywhere, from guilt parenting at home to people pleasing dynamics at work. I share a personal story about noticing this pattern in my own childhood and explain why favouritism isn't about bad intentions. It's about blind spots, stress responses and emotional avoidance.

Whether you're a parent constantly giving one child more attention, a manager who keeps going to the same reliable employee, or a teacher who unconsciously praises the same students, this episode will help you understand the ripple effects of these patterns. I'll walk you through practical tools like the fairness tracker, family balance check and awareness audit so you can start leading with true equity.

Ready to stop operating from comfort and start building real connection through fairness?

Let's break the cycle together.

"Favouritism is guilt disguised as grace" – Jenny Maxwell

You'll hear about:

· Why favouritism breeds resentment and disconnection everywhere

· How guilt parenting creates invisible tension at home

· The stress response that makes us play favourites

· What happens when one child feels never good enough

· How teachers and coaches leave lasting marks on kids

· The fairness tracker for recognizing your whole team

· Family balance checks to ensure everyone feels seen

· Speaking up when you're the one feeling overlooked

· The appreciation framework for calm, clear communication

· Why fairness takes courage and calling yourself out

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Before You Go

This is your reminder that you're not too much, and you're not not enough. You are allowed to take up space, to need support, and to rest. And if that feels hard right now, I'm here. You're not alone in this.

Episode produced by Between Tracks Media Productions - https://www.betweentracks.com/