What is BB or Raw sex. Is it safe and how can you be safe.

What feels good and what is not worth the risk.

Let me take you on my bareback journey and answer your curiosities.

Tell me your experiences and thoughts.

Happy sexing!

V

Now we all know there’s a social pecking order in the ton but how does it differ with the Delhi gays especially from the mainstream gay culture of the universe. Is it tops and bottoms or is it more complex than that or is it just frigid and a bit of hot air. Let’s explore further and I’d love to know your experience in this bustling metropolis.

After all we are our tribe. 

V

Health is wealth and surely not everyone is promiscuous but everyone must enjoy sex surely and believes in a healthy sex life. With that territory comes the nasties and I want you to champion testing and talking openly about infections as we easily talk about having the viral.

It’s time and yes spread love and not STIs

Happy sexing.

V

What is considered as a big cock? Do you think you qualify for big or are you obsessed with big?

Am I big and am I big everywhere or does it change.

How big does it need to be to be considered a Top and if not then what.

Can you actually tell how big is someone?

Let’s explore the journey and dissect.

What is it to be assaulted and does it always have to be physical or violent?

What is your history or assault and where does it stem from.

If you were or ever are in that situation what would you do?

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How was a hetero Punjabi Diwali for you growing up and what’s your earliest memory?

How do we relate to it today especially the ones who live away from India. And how does it feel coming back into it year after year.

And when do you start owning it and make it your own gay Diwali.

Let’s unpack that and fuck societal expectations.

What would you say your first love is? A man, a hobby, a book, a pet, a parent?

First love in my opinion stays with you for your life and doesn’t judge you and keep you afloat.

Are you bothered by what people have said about being feminine or masculine or not doing your heteronormative part.. and how has this shaped your idea of love.

Varun Singal 

Watching Dahmer on Netflix brought a lot to the surface especially in relation to sexual racism as a POC having lived in Australia and Germany.

Do you relate to it and did it also trigger something for you.

Is it relevant in Asian society especially in India?

Would love to hear your experiences and how you agree disagree with mine.

But the point being.

Stay you!

Varun Singal 

Mirror mirror on the wall.

What‘s important to your vanity and how far does it define you?

Is it ok to get surgeries to enhance or upkeep or we must yearn to be beyond vanity and be true yogis looking for inner beauty.

Watch my journey and where I stand on it for it and by it.

Be proud be you and own your vanity.

Varun Vain Singal 

What is monogamy and what does it mean for you?

Are we monogamous by default or is it a choice.

Let’s explore and dissect the insecurities and homosexuality differentiations.

Do you agree with my opinion or it’s a hard line for you?

Sex and sexuality

Varun Singal