Do you have have that friend who seems to just connect with people. They can roll up on strangers and end up with new best friends and dates. And you… can’t.

It doesn’t seem fair, does it? To make matters worse: you could do and say the exact same thing that they do and get blank stares. 

It's not because they have "it" and you don't. It's because of charismatic people understand why we like others and how to create that connection. And you can learn how to create it, too.