Paging Dr. NerdLove

By Harris O'Malley

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Doctor NerdLove is here to help you get your dating life in order with the best dating advice and positive masculine self-improvement on the Internet.

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Paging Dr. NerdLove episodes:

12.09.2020
#156 — This Is Why Dating Sucks For Men (And How To Fix It)
Let's be honest: dating can be a trial. For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's...
11.19.2020
#155 — The 5 Things That Make People Like You... Instantly.
The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives. These...
11.05.2020
#154 — Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence
Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. Even if you’re in a relatively good place, we’re all getting hit with bad news, more stories of...
10.21.2020
#153 — The Secret to Healthier, Stronger Relationships
Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you? Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who was always manipulating you into ways of getting what they wanted, leaving you feeling like a doormat. Maybe you had...
10.07.2020
#152 — This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD
Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do without a second thought. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more...
09.24.2020
#151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating
The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist; having all the right "stats" isn't going to magically make you attractive...
09.09.2020
#150 — Stop Being Afraid Of Rejection
Rejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our lives. Rejections we've experienced in the past...
08.27.2020
#149 — How Do You Know if She's Right For You?
What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to...
08.13.2020
#148 — What Avatar: The Last Airbender Can Teach Us About Finding Redemption
It's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future. By examining one of the best redemption arcs in...
07.23.2020
#147 — How to Talk To Anyone (At Any Time)
One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to. The truth is that the...
07.08.2020
#146 — How To Transform Your Life (With Arden Leigh)
What does it take to turn your life around? How can you learn to recognize negative patterns in your life that are sabotaging your progress? And what does it take to break those patterns and make positive lasting changes? This...
06.18.2020
#145 — The Problem with "Nice Guys"
Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST? The trouble is that Nice Guy's behavior works against them; what they see as positive and...
06.04.2020
#144 — Use This Mindset To Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs
Over the course of my career, I’ve dealt with a lot of people who haven’t had much dating experience — from people who’ve only had one or two girlfriends in their lives to literal 40 year old virgins. They all...
05.28.2020
Bonus Episode: Ask Dr. NerdLove Anything!
This week, we have a special bonus episode: a live episode where my patrons got to ask me anything — from dating advice to moving to Austin to what shows I've been binging during the lockdown. Plus guest appearances from...
05.21.2020
#143 — The Art of Sexting Like A Gentleman
Sexting and knowing how to flirt over text is a skill that’s invaluable whether you have a friends-with-benefits relationship, a long-distance relationship, or if you and your partner are looking to keep things exciting. In fact, knowing how to start...
05.07.2020
#142 — 5 Things You Need To Get Your Life Together
How happy are you with your life right now? If you're like most people, you probably have a list of major changes you’ve wanted to make. You may even have looked at the current pandemic as your chance to work...
04.29.2020
#141 — How To Get Your Ex Back... The RIGHT Way
Last time, we talked about the recent trend of folks reaching out to their exes, why it’s happening so frequently and why it can be comforting to try to rekindle an old relationship. But it's far too easy to fall...
04.23.2020
#140 — Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex?
With the stress and the chaos of the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more people are reaching out to their exes for comfort, for connection and something more. But is it ever a good idea to get back with your ex?...
04.15.2020
#139 — How To Help Your Relationship Survive the COVID-19 Quarantine
Self-isolation can be a trial for even the happiest lovers. Couples under quarantine are starting to feel the strain on their relationship. Relationships are rarely tested the way that they’re being tested now, and many people are discovering their relationship...
04.08.2020
#138 — Love, Sex and Dating During Quarantine
The COVID-19 pandemic doesn't mean that your love life has to be put on hold. In fact, relationships are more important than ever. People are still meeting, dating and even falling in love during social distancing. The coronavirus pandemic has...
04.01.2020
#137 — How To Have A Great Social Life During COVID-19
Loneliness is one of the unspoken side-effects of sheltering in place. And yet, we need our social connections more than ever. How can you build and maintain a social life when social distancing is the rule? In my latest...
03.27.2020
#136 — DR NERDLOVE LIVE: Managing Your Emotional Health During COVID-19
How do you manage anxiety in the middle of a pandemic? How is living under quarantine affecting you? In my first LIVE teleseminar, I talk about how to manage stress and maintain your emotional health during the COVID-19 pandemic. Want...
03.18.2020
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: he and his girlfriend...
03.11.2020
#135 — The 5 Things You Need To Get Over A Breakup
The reason why you have such a hard time getting over your ex is because most folks have the wrong idea about breakups. The pain of a break-up is equal parts mental and physical. When you’re struggling with how to...
03.04.2020
What Letterkenny Can Teach Us About Positive Masculinity
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: With all the talk...
02.26.2020
#133 — You Are Your Own Worst Enemy
The reason why so many people struggle with dating isn't because of their looks, their height, their genes or their hairline. It's because they are caught in a cycle of bad habits and practices that destroy your confidence and sabotages...
02.19.2020
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Handle Being "Just Friends"?
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Everyone's heard the "let's...
02.12.2020
#133 - What Makes a Man Sexy To Women?
Do you know what women find sexy in a man? Not attractive, not aesthetically pleasing but what makes a woman want to peel a man’s clothing off with her teeth. A lot of guys… don’t. In fact, a lot of...
02.05.2020
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Can You Learn To Love Being Single?
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Valentine's Day is coming, and...
01.29.2020
#132 — The Secret to Being Successful With Women
Here's something nobody will tell you about being successful with women: nobody is "naturally" good with women. Nobody is born with an instinctual ability to get dates. Everyone — people who seem to be naturally gifted and people who learned...
01.22.2020
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship?
I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How do you keep your...
01.15.2020
#131 - How To Flirt With Women on Social Media
We live more and more of our lives online, and that means that more of our relationships start there too. But most guys don't know how to flirt effectively on Facebook, Instagram or Snapchat. If you want to be the...
01.08.2020
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How To Take The Perfect Tinder Photo
I’m answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: What are the best pictures...
01.01.2020
#130 — How To Find The PERFECT Girlfriend
How do you find someone who's the RIGHT girlfriend for you... and how do you make sure that YOU are the guy that SHE'S looking for? We're going to talk about what you can do to turn 2020 into the...
12.18.2019
#129 - 3 Tips For Flirting Like A Master
DR. NERDLOVE MERCHANDISE: https://nerdloveacademy.com/shop/ One of the biggest reasons why people have a hard time flirting successfully is that they don’t understand how flirting is supposed to work. But when you understand the overall philosophy of flirting, you’re in a...
12.11.2019
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Meet More Women?
I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: How can...
12.04.2019
#128 — How To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection
What would you do if you weren't afraid of being rejected? How would your life change if you could approach people you were attracted to without the fear of rejection? Eliminating your fear of rejection could create a profound transformation...
11.27.2019
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin?
I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe the next question I answer will be yours! This week: Should you tell women that...
11.20.2019
#127 - Why Women Won't Text You Back (And What You Should Do)
Why did she stop replying to your texts? Why won't she text you back? Is time to panic? When when stop responding to your texts, it can feel like she doesn't like you any more. But that's not always...
11.13.2019
Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number?
I'm answering your most important dating questions! If you have a question about love, sex or dating, then be sure to leave a comment. Maybe next week the question I'll answer will be yours! This week: Why do so many...
11.06.2019
#126 - Why Online Dating SUCKS (And 5 Ways To Fix It)
Online dating sucks. Doesn't matter if it's Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid or Christian Mingle. Men get next to no matches, women get flooded with awful messages, bots, trolls and zombie profiles run rampant on most apps... it's like trying to find...
10.23.2019
#125 - Are You Trapped In An Abusive Relationship?
Toxic relationships can be hard to recognize. Are you being stubborn and selfish? Or is something actually wrong? Toxic people don't look like cartoon abusers, gloating about how great it is to manipulate folks. Learning how to recognize the signs...
10.10.2019
#124 - Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys
Why do women say they want to find a nice guy, but never seem to want to date them? The answer is that what women are not saying is actually more important. Whenever a woman says “I wish I could find...
09.25.2019
#123 - 5 Things Men Do That Women HATE
Are you ruining your chances of meeting incredible women before you even start? Women HATE it when the guys they meet do these 5 things. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How guys turn women off before they even say a word Why...
09.12.2019
#122 - Conquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social Confidence
Confidence isn’t about being 100% sure of your inevitable success, it’s simply feeling that you know how to handle the situation.  Taking away the fear of social awkwardness helps build bullet-proof social confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why your attitude is...
08.28.2019
#121 - The 5 Things That Make You Irresistible To Women
What does it take to be someone that women want to date? It's not about looks, status or money. It's about understanding the secret behind why we fall in love and with whom. Show Highlights: Why guys focus on surface...
08.14.2019
#120 - What REALLY Makes Men Attractive?
Does personality matter, or are looks the only thing that's important? Why do guys have a hard time understanding what makes a man attractive to women? SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How much your physique ACTUALLY matters to women Why "attraction triggers"...
08.01.2019
#119 - What Does A Real Man Look Like?
Men feel immense pressure to look a particular way and they're breaking themselves, physically and psychically to try to get to reach those ideals.  As bodies are marketed to us as products and men are sold self-loathing, we have to...
07.18.2019
#118 - Dating Tips for Short Men
When Chris Morgan had a meltdown at the Bagel Boss in Long Island, he was tapping into real frustrations short men have in dating. Here's how short guys can learn to get the girl. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: How the body...
07.04.2019
#117 - How To Be Instantly Magnetic To Women
Charisma and personal magnetism aren't about being the handsomest or most impressive person in the room. It's about knowing how to connect with people in ways that other folks can't. Understand how to build the right connections with people and...

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Paging Dr. NerdLove episodes:

#156 — This Is Why Dating Sucks For Men (And How To Fix It)

#155 — The 5 Things That Make People Like You... Instantly.

#154 — Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence

#153 — The Secret to Healthier, Stronger Relationships

#152 — This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD

#151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating

#150 — Stop Being Afraid Of Rejection

#149 — How Do You Know if She's Right For You?

#148 — What Avatar: The Last Airbender Can Teach Us About Finding Redemption

#147 — How to Talk To Anyone (At Any Time)

#146 — How To Transform Your Life (With Arden Leigh)

#145 — The Problem with "Nice Guys"

#144 — Use This Mindset To Overcome Your Self-Limiting Beliefs

Bonus Episode: Ask Dr. NerdLove Anything!

#143 — The Art of Sexting Like A Gentleman

#142 — 5 Things You Need To Get Your Life Together

#141 — How To Get Your Ex Back... The RIGHT Way

#140 — Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex?

#139 — How To Help Your Relationship Survive the COVID-19 Quarantine

#138 — Love, Sex and Dating During Quarantine

#137 — How To Have A Great Social Life During COVID-19

#136 — DR NERDLOVE LIVE: Managing Your Emotional Health During COVID-19

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How To Make A Long Distance Relationship Work

#135 — The 5 Things You Need To Get Over A Breakup

What Letterkenny Can Teach Us About Positive Masculinity

#133 — You Are Your Own Worst Enemy

ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Handle Being "Just Friends"?

#133 - What Makes a Man Sexy To Women?

ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Can You Learn To Love Being Single?

#132 — The Secret to Being Successful With Women

ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Keep The Spark In Your Relationship?

#131 - How To Flirt With Women on Social Media

Ask Dr. NerdLove: How To Take The Perfect Tinder Photo

#130 — How To Find The PERFECT Girlfriend

#129 - 3 Tips For Flirting Like A Master

ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do You Meet More Women?

#128 — How To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection

Ask Dr. NerdLove: Should You Tell Your Date That You're A Virgin?

#127 - Why Women Won't Text You Back (And What You Should Do)

Ask Dr. NerdLove: What Do You Do If She Gives You A Fake Number?

#126 - Why Online Dating SUCKS (And 5 Ways To Fix It)

#125 - Are You Trapped In An Abusive Relationship?

#124 - Why Women Don't Like Nice Guys

#123 - 5 Things Men Do That Women HATE

#122 - Conquer Your Social Anxiety and Develop Bullet-Proof Social Confidence

#121 - The 5 Things That Make You Irresistible To Women

#120 - What REALLY Makes Men Attractive?

#119 - What Does A Real Man Look Like?

#118 - Dating Tips for Short Men

#117 - How To Be Instantly Magnetic To Women