The Rabbi and The Shrink

#51: Michael Alcee - The Unconscious and All That Jazz


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Why do people become lemmings?

What is self-awareness like being a jazz musician?

How can we reframe whistleblowing as leadership!

These and other compelling questions are addressed when therapeutic improvisationalist Dr. Michael Alcee joins The Rabbi and the Shrink.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-alcee-14417755/

https://michaelalcee.com/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vkkGPyc3ZmA


2:30 Embrace dissonance to create new forms

Bliss comes often from embracing difficulties and dilemmas

Before we can deal with diversity and multitudes without we have to address them within

We need to confront our inner diversity and contention

We become exiled from ourselves

The lessons of Joseph and his brothers

We have to anticipate how our messages will be deceived

We have to recognize where we’ve gone wrong before we can move forward


12:00  Take inventory

No shortcuts to self-knowledge or knowledge of others

The difference between hurt and hate, between guilt and grievance

Anger is easier than vulnerability but often counterproductive

Why am I feeling anger?  Why are you?

Trauma can’t be talked about, it has to be acted out

Instead of being adversaries, we can heal each other

Seeking the I-thou moment

Mirror neurons -- we’re designed to connect and respond


20:00 How introverts can thrive in groups

We have to know others before we can accurate interpret their behavior

Nurture, nature, or both?

The rule of three is programmed into nature, refuting binary perception

Not good for Man to be alone


28:30  In exile we can discover our own divinity

Being human is like improvising a jazz performance

If we don’t face the changes, we miss the opportunity to create

The wisdom of “yes, and…”

We are a compilation of stories

If you’re listening, you can make something beautiful out of anything


34:00 Why do people become lemmings?

Our two favorite things are stability and change

To question, we have to allow ourselves to not know

Reframe a whistleblower as a leader

It’s easier to vilify than to accept rebuke


44:00  The amputee and the red boot

We want to celebrate what makes it unique

“Who made a bigger mistake today


47:00  The word of the day:  Tmesis 

When the prefix is separated from the simple verb) was an original feature of the Ancient Greek language, also common in Latin, Dutch and German.

A whole nother...(story / kettle of fish / ball game) is an example of tmesis in English.
Colloquial examples include the common "un-[bloody]-believable"
Ned Flanders, a character in The Simpsons: "Wel-diddly-elcome!" 

Interrupting the natural flow brings attention to the content.  Introverts have a natural tendency to look and think deeper, to notice subtlety and nuance; they have less fear of silence, and are often more attuned to new ways of thinking and seeing because they don’t get caught up in the relentless rhythm of life.



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