How you speak about yourself is how you're going to behave. How you behave is the life you're going to live and the results you're going to produce. The story that we believe the most about ourselves is a story that we tell the most about ourselves. Ask yourself: *Who do you believe you are? Who do you say that you are? *What's the new story that you've got to start telling about who you believe you are?  *What is the new story, the new narrative, the new belief system that you ought to tell yourself so that you could go get what you want? However we believe we are, we begin to build a world and build a reality around that belief.