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I talk to so many women who tell me they’re doing fine with dating, thank you very much!
They’re champs at getting rid of losers, flakes, players and all the awful men out there.
And that’s a great skill to have.
But they’re still single and they have been at this for years.
If that’s the result you want, you can skip this episode, but if you want to actually find a wonderful man to share your life with, I want you to lean in.
Sitting safely in your snipers nest, shooting down all the bad men from a distance is not finding you a good man!!
Finding a good man starts with marketing yourself in a way that will attract him.
Then you vet the men who are attracted to you effectively so that only the ones who are in it to win it stick around.
Without shooting them all down, testing them or making them chase you.
Good men don’t play those games.
Then, you give the man who is excited about you a chance to grow on you instead of pining for the bad boys who never call.
When you do these things consistently while being open to changing and doing things differently, you will find a good man.
Weeding bad men out won’t even be necessary if you do this right.
You’ll get way fewer bad men reaching out to you, they will fall away naturally and you’ll wonder what you ever saw in them because you will have acquired a taste for good men.
Bad men don’t have to be a problem.
Bad men will always exist in the world, but you can find a wonderful man and be happy anyway when you learn how to date effectively.
And then, who cares what those bad guys do?
I have a great free resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN
I just created a brand new package to help you write an amazing dating profile! If you’d like to check it out, click here.
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I talk to so many women who tell me they’re doing fine with dating, thank you very much!
They’re champs at getting rid of losers, flakes, players and all the awful men out there.
And that’s a great skill to have.
But they’re still single and they have been at this for years.
If that’s the result you want, you can skip this episode, but if you want to actually find a wonderful man to share your life with, I want you to lean in.
Sitting safely in your snipers nest, shooting down all the bad men from a distance is not finding you a good man!!
Finding a good man starts with marketing yourself in a way that will attract him.
Then you vet the men who are attracted to you effectively so that only the ones who are in it to win it stick around.
Without shooting them all down, testing them or making them chase you.
Good men don’t play those games.
Then, you give the man who is excited about you a chance to grow on you instead of pining for the bad boys who never call.
When you do these things consistently while being open to changing and doing things differently, you will find a good man.
Weeding bad men out won’t even be necessary if you do this right.
You’ll get way fewer bad men reaching out to you, they will fall away naturally and you’ll wonder what you ever saw in them because you will have acquired a taste for good men.
Bad men don’t have to be a problem.
Bad men will always exist in the world, but you can find a wonderful man and be happy anyway when you learn how to date effectively.
And then, who cares what those bad guys do?
I have a great free resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN
I just created a brand new package to help you write an amazing dating profile! If you’d like to check it out, click here.
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