"When things get back to normal, I'll..."  There is no normal!!!  There is only peaks and valleys, ups and downs, life is ALWAYS changing!!!  If you wait until the fantasy land of "normal" to work towards your goals YOU'LL NEVER ACHIEVE THEM!!!  The biggest accomplishments in your life will be made in the PRESENCE of challenges, not in the absence of them.  Stop waiting, don't become a victim of the circumstances and people around you... OWN YOUR ACTIONS AND EARN THE LIFE YOU WANT!!!