The School Can't Experience

#56 - Why Teacher Relationships Matter with Dr Kate Renshaw


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Play and filial therapist Dr. Kate Renshaw joins host Leisa Reichelt to explore how play therapy can support children and families experiencing School Can’t, especially when kids struggle with traditional talk-based therapies. 

Kate describes why play therapy is developmentally sensitive and how the family-based approach, filial therapy can be powerful for both parent and child. She discusses creating consistent, relationally safe support across home and school. 

This episode also explores Kate’s evidence-based Teacher’s Optimal Relationship Approach (TORA), designed to help teachers use play-therapy-informed relational skills in everyday classroom interactions. Kate highlights research showing the student–teacher relationship is a key predictor of school attendance. They discuss practical ways families can “lean into play,” including joining children in their interests and screen-based play.

Relevant resources;

  • Play and Filial Therapy (Kate’s practice) -https://www.playandfilialtherapy.com/
  • Kate on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.katerenshaw/
  • Kate on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/Play-Filial-Therapy-100057567515430/
  • Kate on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-play
  • Australasia Pacific Play Therapy Association (Find a Therapist) - https://appta.org.au/
  • 62% of Children reporting maltreatment: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-04-03/major-child-maltreatment-report-findings/102160726
  • Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs): Summary of evidence and impacts - https://emergingminds.com.au/resources/adverse-childhood-experiences-aces-summary-of-evidence-and-impacts/

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