People often rationalize emotional affairs as harmless because they are "just emotional." But, the opposite is true. Emotional affairs are cheating. Emotional affairs crumble relationships as one partner goes to another for support, affirmation, and validation. This often leads to secrecy, shame, and unhealthy comparisons. This groundwork of intense emotional connection often leads to physical affairs. Porn is also another type of emotional affair, taking time and energy away from the primary relationship. If your partner has engaged in emotional affairs, your feelings of betrayal are valid. Don't let anyone tell you that emotional affairs are not cheating and that your feelings of devastation and deep pain are not valid. 

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