How do you know for sure you’re ready to date?

I think that being ready is very subjective.

We do lots of things in life we don’t necessarily feel ready for, just because we want the results or the experience of doing them.

We don’t wait until we’re ready to brush our teeth, go to the doctor to get a checkup, or enroll in grad school. 

You may not feel ready to date, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t.

Or that you even need to be ready in order to be successful.

If you’re a parent, you probably weren’t really ready for that first child.

You may or may not have thought you were, but when he or she arrived, you likely realized that you were not.

But you went on with it and it turned out fine.

I think more things in life are like that than not, and that this whole being ready thing is overrated.

So the question is, do you want to date?

Do you want to find someone to share your life with?

If so, I suggest you make a plan to do it.

It’s ok if you don’t feel ready at the moment.

If you really don’t feel ready, but you want to, ask yourself how you’ll know when you are ready. What will that look like? Is there anything I can do to help myself be ready? Do I want to be ready?

When you have the answers to these questions, you can create a plan to get yourself ready instead of waiting around to feel ready one of these days.

Don’t use not feeling ready as an excuse not to go for the things you want in life.

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