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58. It's not just you, it really is hard to find a good guy
It’s not your imagination. It really is hard to find a good guy in today’s dating climate.
But there’s plenty you can do to help yourself find the good guys that are out there looking for you.
Here are some reasons it’s so hard to find a relationship-ready man:
There aren’t as many of them “on the market” at any given time. Once they get in relationships, they tend to stay in them.
This leaves a much higher percentage of guys who are not relationship-ready on the market.
When a relationship-ready man is trying to find someone, he’s looking to settle down as quickly as possible. So he’s not on the market that long.
You’re probably rejecting guys like this all the time because they aren’t super smooth and early dates with them can feel kind of awkward, you’re not likely to feel sparks with them at first, and they may scare you by wanting to be in a relationship with you “too soon”.
What you can do about this :
Prioritize a man’s relationship goals over other qualities that have nothing to do with being able to be in good relationship.
Get rid of any man who don’t share your relationship goals so that you’ll be available to the ones that do.
Log onto dating sites consistently and respond to messages in a timely manner. Good men don’t stay on the market for long.
Don’t rule out men who you don’t feel chemistry with at first or who seem too excited about you. These guys are often the relationship/ready man you want.
Chemistry can and often does grow over time as long as you have some to start with.
I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN
Join my free live Zoom class on Wednesday, March 20th at 7PM CDT to learn how to create your man plan and I'll answer your questions live on the call! Click here or go to https://reneesuzannecoaching.com/datingplan
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It’s not your imagination. It really is hard to find a good guy in today’s dating climate.
But there’s plenty you can do to help yourself find the good guys that are out there looking for you.
Here are some reasons it’s so hard to find a relationship-ready man:
There aren’t as many of them “on the market” at any given time. Once they get in relationships, they tend to stay in them.
This leaves a much higher percentage of guys who are not relationship-ready on the market.
When a relationship-ready man is trying to find someone, he’s looking to settle down as quickly as possible. So he’s not on the market that long.
You’re probably rejecting guys like this all the time because they aren’t super smooth and early dates with them can feel kind of awkward, you’re not likely to feel sparks with them at first, and they may scare you by wanting to be in a relationship with you “too soon”.
What you can do about this :
Prioritize a man’s relationship goals over other qualities that have nothing to do with being able to be in good relationship.
Get rid of any man who don’t share your relationship goals so that you’ll be available to the ones that do.
Log onto dating sites consistently and respond to messages in a timely manner. Good men don’t stay on the market for long.
Don’t rule out men who you don’t feel chemistry with at first or who seem too excited about you. These guys are often the relationship/ready man you want.
Chemistry can and often does grow over time as long as you have some to start with.
I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.
Click here to download it or go to bit.ly/MANPLAN
Join my free live Zoom class on Wednesday, March 20th at 7PM CDT to learn how to create your man plan and I'll answer your questions live on the call! Click here or go to https://reneesuzannecoaching.com/datingplan
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