In Episode 58 of the Art of We podcast, Dr. Will and Krista Van Derveer delve into another foundational agreement turned vow in their relationship. Join them as they explore the nuances of supporting each other's greatest expression and the pivotal role it plays in their partnership. The hosts share personal experiences, emphasizing the necessity of a secure home base for authentic expression and the impact of mutual support on their professional endeavors.

Dr. Will and Krista underscore the value of recognizing and addressing blind spots together, fostering growth and finding possibility, especially when it’s hard. They discuss the proactive and courageous stance required to accept and hold each other accountable to live into one another’s greatest expression, emphasizing the cost of suppressing important goals and desires in order to avoid facing conflict in relationship. The episode dives into the nuances of navigating differences in mindsets, touching on cancel culture and the importance of respectful discourse. 

As the hosts share examples of personal challenges, they stress the significance of taking time, seeking external support when needed, and finding alignment in overcoming obstacles. The episode concludes with an invitation for listeners to reflect on their own relationships, encouraging open communication and the courage to stand for their partner's fullest expression. Tune in for more insightful discussions on the Art of We podcast!

Main Topics Covered:

• Personal Growth as the Supportive Partner: the challenges and growth opportunities inherent in supporting a partner's self-expression
• Creating a Safe Home Base: the significance of a secure home base for authentic expression and ability to transform
• Overcoming Challenges and Finding Mutuality: the importance of a partner seeing beyond individual perspectives
• Navigating Differences: the need for respectful discourse and differences of opinion to foster cultural progression
• Overcoming Challenges Together: the role of a partner in helping navigate blind spots and fostering growth

Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or on your favorite podcast platform. 

Resources Mentioned: 

• The Collaborative Way
• The Relationship School with Jayson Gaddis
• Film: “Abortion Talks”
• The Art Of We - Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 

Get in Touch: 

• The Art Of We Website
• The Art of We Instagram 
• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Integrative Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy Training

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