You may not know where to start with dating.

You may hope that you’ll just meet someone you like and he’ll like you and things will just fall into place.

I spent years feeling the exact same way and honestly, it would have been nice.

Besides, it’s what all the movies and books tell us is supposed to happen, so what’s wrong with that?

Well, let’s start with the fact that you’ve wanted this for a while now and it’s not just happening to you.

Do you want to wait another few years to see what happens (which will probably be more of the same) or do you want to help yourself find a great guy to share your life with?

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with giving fate a helping hand in the relationships department. 

We take constructive action in literally every other area of our lives, so why not with dating?

If you’re serious about finding a good guy, I strongly recommend that you start by committing to creating your result.

Resolve that you are going to do everything within your power to make this happen for yourself.

You will make yourself available for a relationship, you will make time to go out and meet new men, you will make a plan and stick to it, and you will develop the necessary skills to ensure your success.

You are no longer waiting to see what will happen to you in your own life.

You are declaring yourself to be the captain of your own ship.

You will do this for yourself because you want it and you deserve to go after the things you want in life.

Is it possible that you won’t be successful?

Yes, but it is unlikely. Here’s why:

Human beings are wired for love and connection. There are many many humans that want to be in relationships. 

A good many of them are men in your geographic area who are around your age. It’s just a matter of finding one who is right for you.

Success in love is not limited to a certain number of people, like winning Olympic gold medals or becoming the president of The United States. 

It definitely involves work, but it is much less difficult than these things. Honestly, you’ve probably already done much harder things than finding a great guy if you’re a successful woman over 40.

So if you want to find a quality man to share your life with, start by committing to making this happen for yourself.

Then you’ll want to create a plan for success and develop your dating skills.

I’ll be talking about this a lot more in future episodes.

I have a great resource to help you create your very own custom man plan so that you can find a quality man ASAP.

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