Goal Tending

6. Notice Your Focus w/ Katie Hockenberry


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Mindset determines rather you win or lose! In this episode my long time friend Katie Hockenberry, joins us to dive into mindset, relationships, and balance. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist having worked in a variety of settings & populations over the past several years, and is now a Director of a therapeutic crisis stabilization program. She brings a humanistic and Rogerian Therapy approach to her clients. On top of that she’s a compassionate and devoted daughter, sister, and friend. Come join the conversation and let's grow together.


Key Points

*Rogerian Therapy

*Controlling your thoughts

*Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

*Dealing with negative self-talk

*Thinking traps

*Notice your focus

*Solution Focused Therapy

*Using gratitude to manifest

*Using gratitude when you feel stuck

*The dark side of gratitude

*Don’t SHOULD on yourself

*Toxic positivity

*Feel the emotions you feel

*Diversity in relationships

*You don’t have to think the same way to be friends

*Intentionality with connecting with friends and making time

*Healthy, Rigid, and Fluid Boundaries

*How do I have healthy boundaries when those around me are struggling?

*Understanding and compassionate approach to boundaries

*Water the seeds of positive emotions

*Anger is a secondary emotion

*”The Wolf that You Feed”

*Stress is influencing your responses

*Ask questions to get to the route cause

*Set a daily intention

*Self-Compassion

*The Positive Aspect Ratio

 

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

01:08 Katie Bio

04:21 Rogerian Therapy Approach

06:15 Activating Events>Thoughts>Consequences

08:24 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

10:25 Mindsets Impact on Confidence

11:49 Gratitude

19:25 Feel the Emotions YOU Feel

21:19 Healthy Relationships

24:25 The Struggle with Balance

27:00 Relational Boundaries

33:55 Boundaries at Work

36:00 Dealing with Anger

41:05 Garden of Emotions

44:20 Socratic Method

45:40 Katie’s Keys to Success

50:50 Stay Curious

54:19 Closing


Links

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x95_BTeanI8

https://goalswithwill.com

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Goal TendingBy Will Bland