Why put blame on ourselves when it was OBVIOUSLY the other person?! In this episode, we get into the nitty gritty about how we, ourselves, ARE contributors in any arguement, or troubles in our past, current, and future relationships. Do not worry, I have done every single one of these mistakes in my relationship--so we are only trying to get better TOGETHER. I reference Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me (Tavris and Aronson 2014) as well as Carol Dweck's Book Mindset (2004).