Safe Harbour

#6 When Men Go Quiet: Loneliness, Intimacy & Community


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Jamie Robins and Sam Adams explore the themes of winter, isolation, masculinity, and the importance of intimacy and community among men. They discuss the challenges men face in acknowledging their loneliness and the societal pressures that contribute to this isolation. The conversation emphasizes the need for men to embrace vulnerability, build intimate friendships, and redefine masculinity in a way that fosters connection and support. Practical steps are offered to combat isolation and encourage men to take action towards building meaningful relationships.takeaways

  • Winter is a time for reflection and rest.
  • Men often struggle with the concept of intimacy.
  • Loneliness is a significant issue for many men.
  • Healthy masculinity involves consent and listening.
  • Building close friendships is essential for emotional health.
  • Discipline can help combat feelings of isolation.
  • Engaging in community activities fosters connection.
  • Boredom can lead to self-discovery and reflection.
  • Action is necessary to overcome anxiety and isolation.
  • Men should actively seek opportunities for connection.
  • Winter Reflections: Embracing the Season of Rest
  • Breaking the Silence: Men's Loneliness and Isolation
  • "Give yourself permission to rest."
  • "Boredom is an existential pain point."
  • "We need to shake things up a bit."

00:00Introduction and Connection

03:05Embracing Winter: A Time for Reflection

05:46The Challenge of Isolation

12:09Understanding Loneliness in Men

18:08The Importance of Intimacy

24:12Redefining Masculinity

30:02The Role of Community

36:08Practical Steps to Combat Isolation

42:01Conclusion and Call to Action


Sam Adams

www.liberatingmasculinity.co.uk

IG and TT @samadams_wildman

Masculinity training, coaching and events


Jamie Robins

www.jamiecoach.com


The term "NEET" (pronounced "neets") is an acronym for "Not in Education, Employment, or Training," describing young people (usually 16-24) who are idle in the labor market, meaning they aren't studying, working, or learning a trade, often highlighting a societal issue of youth disengagement, with recent UK data showing more young men falling into this category. 

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