The Growth Voyage Podcast

#60 - Breaking Free from India’s Expectations: Choosing Purpose Over Approval | Gauthaman Ramesh


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In this episode of The Growth Voyage Podcast, we explore what it truly means to break away from expectation and build a life aligned with your values. Gauthaman grew up in India’s academic pressure cooker - where success was defined by grades, stability, and approval. Yet beneath that structure, he felt a pull toward something deeper: fitness, freedom, and purpose. This conversation is about choosing authenticity over approval, and what happens when you stop chasing happiness - and start building a life that actually means something. If you’ve ever questioned the path laid out for you, this one will resonate.


We dive into:

  • ​The weight of academic and societal pressure
  • ​The courage to pursue passion over tradition
  • ​What it takes to leave a stable path and start again
  • ​The role of self-awareness, community, and resilience in growth
  • ​Navigating cultural and family expectations
  • ​Finding balance between hard work, joy, and fulfilment
  • ​Building meaningful friendships
  • ​Nice guy syndrome



I help recovering Nice Guys leave the mask behind and become Grounded Warriors. Find out more: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/harisonsaunders/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


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Connect with Gauthaman on Instagram:

  • https://www.instagram.com/gmanrides/
  • https://www.instagram.com/gmansuperfitt/


Song recommendation: Pink Floyd - Comfortably Numb


Book recommendations:

  • ​Robert Glover - No More Mr Nice Guy
  • ​David Deida - The Way of the Superior ManEnjoyed the conversation?
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