This episode contains a brief mention of violent murder.

Teresa is a queer woman who grew up in the Philippines and has worked in the U.S. in campus ministry for several years. She brings thoughtful reflections on identities, faith relationships, and family interactions across multiple cultures. We’re honored to be her friend!

Note: This episode uses the terms “Side A” and “Side B” (and X, Y) as shorthand quite a bit. If you’re new to the conversation, you might find it helpful to check out episode #3, where we talk through the four “sides”: ⁠#3 - A-B-Y-X | 4 Sides on SSA/Gay Sexuality⁠

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★ Timestamps

(00:00) #60 - Teresa - On Filipina, Side B

(03:31) Understanding faith and sexuality as a 12-year-old Filipina

(11:53) Filipino and US shared queer terminology

(14:46) Catholics and Protestants: a wide schism

(19:41) My parents love me dearly, but identity is hard

(27:08) What's influencing me lately: mystics, monastics, and eunuchs

(31:19) Side B: Reveling in God's love for me

(39:38) Finding a queer staff community in campus ministry

(45:38) Gifts of being queer: art, care, hospitality

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