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#60: The Fine Line Between Compassion and Enabling: Are We Helping or Hurting Our Loved Ones?


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In this episode, Kat discusses the topic of enabling family members and the fine line between compassion and enabling. She shares her personal experience with enabling and the trauma response behind it.

She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the stories and fears behind enabling and the need to set boundaries. Kat encourages listeners to trust that others can figure things out for themselves and to focus on their own growth and self-care.

A big thank you to Bella Solanot from the OUT OF OUR MINDS PODCAST for submitting this question on my Instagram Broadcast Channel!


TIME STAMPS:

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

08:29 What is Enabling?

12:29 Behaviors and Patterns of Enabling

25:31 My Personal Relationship to Enabling

38:34 How We Use Enabling to Keep Connection

41:05 Setting Boundaries to Break the Cycle of Enabling

45:04 Exploring Tribalism + Community

47:58 Exploring Ancestral Patterns of Enabling

55:35 Being A Compassionate Witness

01:04:02 What are you getting out of being an Enabler?

01:11:02 How To Win a FREE FCT with me


SHOW LINKS:

HWK Episode #55

HWK Episode #58

HWK Episode #52


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