Welcome back to This Is For Us! In today’s highly anticipated episode, we’re diving into the minds of men in their 30s. After countless requests, I’ve brought together a group of some of the most handsome, successful, funny, and fun guys to sit down and share their thoughts on dating, marriage, and life as a 30-something.

From societal pressures to the evolution of relationships, we’re covering it all—including juicy topics like what they notice first about a woman, their thoughts on confidence versus cockiness, and how they approach finding “the one.” Whether you’re single, dating, or just curious, this episode is packed with insights and laughter that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about modern relationships.

Grab your drink, settle in, and let’s get raw and real.

HIGHLIGHTS

• The “30s Pressure”: Society may call you a dinosaur, but these guys feel like their 30s are just the beginning. From clarity of mind to more financial stability, they agree life only gets better.

• Dating Goals: How their approach to relationships has shifted from “going with the flow” in their 20s to seeking substance, values, and long-term compatibility in their 30s.

• Why They’re Single: Raw answers about prioritizing personal growth, career goals, and the importance of being ready before committing to someone else.

• First Impressions: What really catches their attention—spoiler: it’s more about confidence and how you carry yourself than what you’re wearing.

• Physical Appearance vs. Personality: The surprising balance these men seek and how a great conversation can make someone even more attractive.

• Where to Meet High-Quality Men: Tailgates, church, mutual friends, and yes, sometimes even bars—how location sets the tone for connection.

QUOTE FROM THE EPISODE

"At the end of the day, it’s not about what you’re wearing or how expensive your bag is—it’s about how you carry yourself and how you make others feel."

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