A man should PROVIDE, PRESIDE, PROTECT, PRODUCE, and teach PERSPECTIVE.   In order to lead your family, you've got to lead yourself.   And the way to lead yourself is to do what you say you're going to do.   Ask yourself: Do you provide? Do you lead your family? Do you know how to defend/ protect your family? Will you rise as the real man that you were born to be? You can turn and develop, you can grow and expand. You can change and transform.   But you've got to DECIDE. Today, I want to be proud of myself.