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64 | Why People Cheat - with Ashley Madison Executive Paul Keable
Affairs. Infidelity. Desire.
Not exactly the conversations most people are having openly… but maybe we should be.
In this episode, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison — the world’s most well-known platform for people in committed relationships seeking discreet connections.
And before you jump to conclusions… this conversation might surprise you.
With over a decade at Ashley Madison, Paul has had a front-row seat to one of the largest real-world data sets on human desire, relationships, and unmet needs. What he shares challenges almost everything we think we know about cheating, monogamy, and why people look outside their relationships.
We talk about:
- Why people actually have affairs (hint: it’s not just about sex)
- The surprising truth about women, desire, and sexless relationships
- What men are really craving (and why it’s often misunderstood)
- The role of technology in modern intimacy and connection
- And the uncomfortable truth about the conversations most couples aren’t having
This isn’t about promoting or condemning infidelity.
It’s about understanding the deeper emotional and psychological drivers behind it — so you can create more honest, connected, and fulfilling relationships… on your own terms.
Because at the end of the day, the question isn’t whether people are cheating…
It’s why.
________
Meet Our Guest
Paul Keable is the Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, where he’s spent over a decade shaping one of the most controversial - and revealing - platforms in modern dating. Based in Toronto, he brings a unique lens on human behavior, desire, and the evolving dynamics of relationships in the digital age.
________
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Affairs. Infidelity. Desire.
Not exactly the conversations most people are having openly… but maybe we should be.
In this episode, I sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison — the world’s most well-known platform for people in committed relationships seeking discreet connections.
And before you jump to conclusions… this conversation might surprise you.
With over a decade at Ashley Madison, Paul has had a front-row seat to one of the largest real-world data sets on human desire, relationships, and unmet needs. What he shares challenges almost everything we think we know about cheating, monogamy, and why people look outside their relationships.
We talk about:
- Why people actually have affairs (hint: it’s not just about sex)
- The surprising truth about women, desire, and sexless relationships
- What men are really craving (and why it’s often misunderstood)
- The role of technology in modern intimacy and connection
- And the uncomfortable truth about the conversations most couples aren’t having
This isn’t about promoting or condemning infidelity.
It’s about understanding the deeper emotional and psychological drivers behind it — so you can create more honest, connected, and fulfilling relationships… on your own terms.
Because at the end of the day, the question isn’t whether people are cheating…
It’s why.
________
Meet Our Guest
Paul Keable is the Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, where he’s spent over a decade shaping one of the most controversial - and revealing - platforms in modern dating. Based in Toronto, he brings a unique lens on human behavior, desire, and the evolving dynamics of relationships in the digital age.
________
Go Deeper
https://www.krishall.ca
Join our retreat in Mexico:
https://www.krishall.ca/application-wild-women-unleashed
Sex Coaching:
https://calendly.com/krishall2/consultation-call
Download The Pleasure Portal (FREE)
https://www.krishall.ca/the-pleasure-portal
Learn Sex Magic (FREE)
https://www.krishall.ca/sex-magic
Use code KRIS10 for 10% off sex toys:
waands.com
Submit your questions:
https://www.krishall.ca/podcast
IG:
https://www.instagram.com/kris.the.pleasure.engineer/
https://www.instagram.com/illhavewhat_shes_having/