This Is For Us

65. Keeping your intentions pure and saying yes to what matters (and no to the rest)


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🎄In this heartfelt Christmas episode, I reflect on the chaos of the holiday season and offer a much-needed pep talk for navigating this busy, emotional time. 

  • The importance of keeping your intentions pure in all you do 🌟
  • Why saying no can open doors for meaningful yeses 💕
  • How to prioritize your joy, traditions, and presence over perfection 🎁

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, guilty, or just plain exhausted, this episode is your reminder to honor your heart, simplify where you can, and create a holiday season filled with love—for yourself and others. 💖

💬 Talking Points

  1. Your Intentions Matter

    • Nobody truly knows your heart or your reasoning like you do.
    • As long as your intentions are pure, they are enough.
  2. Stop Saying Yes Out of Guilt

    • Every yes to someone else is a no to something that could bring you joy.
    • Reevaluate your obligations—say yes only when it lights you up.
  3. Traditions and Self-Care

    • Protect the things that make your heart happy, even if they seem small or silly.
    • Let go of guilt and create space for moments that matter most to you.
  4. Reframe the Overwhelm

    • Flip “I have to” into “I get to” to reclaim the joy of the season.
    • Remember: This time is fleeting. Make it meaningful for YOU.

🎙️ Quotes from the Episode

  1. “You cannot give someone else permission to make you feel inferior. Trust your heart and stand by yourself.” 💪✨
  2. “Every ‘yes’ you say is a ‘no’ to something else. Choose your yeses wisely—they should bring you joy, not resentment.” 🌟
  3. “Your Christmas magic doesn’t come from slaving away. It comes from the love and presence you bring to the moments that matter.” 🎄💖
  4. “The holidays are fleeting. Let’s make time for what lights up our hearts and creates the memories we’ll cherish.” ✨
  5. “Even when life gets overwhelming, remember: You’re incredible, you’re doing your best, and that is enough.” 🌟💕

🎄 Resources & Links

  • Follow me on Instagram for more holiday pep talks and inspiration!
  • Join the This Is For Us community on Facebook here.
  • Website: This Is For Us Podcast
  • Don’t miss next week’s episode, where we reflect on 2024 and plan for an incredible 2025!
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