This Is For Us

65. Keeping your intentions pure and saying yes to what matters (and no to the rest)


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๐ŸŽ„In this heartfelt Christmas episode, I reflect on the chaos of the holiday season and offer a much-needed pep talk for navigating this busy, emotional time.

  • The importance of keeping your intentions pure in all you do ๐ŸŒŸ
  • Why saying no can open doors for meaningful yeses ๐Ÿ’•
  • How to prioritize your joy, traditions, and presence over perfection ๐ŸŽ

If you're feeling overwhelmed, guilty, or just plain exhausted, this episode is your reminder to honor your heart, simplify where you can, and create a holiday season filled with loveโ€”for yourself and others. ๐Ÿ’–

๐Ÿ’ฌ Talking Points

  1. Your Intentions Matter

    • Nobody truly knows your heart or your reasoning like you do.
    • As long as your intentions are pure, they are enough.
  2. Stop Saying Yes Out of Guilt

    • Every yes to someone else is a no to something that could bring you joy.
    • Reevaluate your obligationsโ€”say yes only when it lights you up.
  3. Traditions and Self-Care

    • Protect the things that make your heart happy, even if they seem small or silly.
    • Let go of guilt and create space for moments that matter most to you.
  4. Reframe the Overwhelm

    • Flip "I have to" into "I get to" to reclaim the joy of the season.
    • Remember: This time is fleeting. Make it meaningful for YOU.

๐ŸŽ™๏ธ Quotes from the Episode

  1. "You cannot give someone else permission to make you feel inferior. Trust your heart and stand by yourself." ๐Ÿ’ชโœจ
  2. "Every 'yes' you say is a 'no' to something else. Choose your yeses wiselyโ€”they should bring you joy, not resentment." ๐ŸŒŸ
  3. "Your Christmas magic doesn't come from slaving away. It comes from the love and presence you bring to the moments that matter." ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ’–
  4. "The holidays are fleeting. Let's make time for what lights up our hearts and creates the memories we'll cherish." โœจ
  5. "Even when life gets overwhelming, remember: You're incredible, you're doing your best, and that is enough." ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’•

๐ŸŽ„ Resources & Links

  • Follow me on Instagram for more holiday pep talks and inspiration!
  • Join the This Is For Us community on Facebook here.
  • Website: This Is For Us Podcast
  • Don't miss next week's episode, where we reflect on 2024 and plan for an incredible 2025!
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