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66. Kirstie Taylor : Finding Love is a Self-Reflective Experience


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Kirstie Taylor is a dating, self-love and relationship writer. She's had pieces featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, Well + Good, and the Washington Post.

Her first book, What I Wish I Knew About Love comes out at the end of February / early March! Pre-order it here : ShopCatalog.com

 

Topics :

  • 1 piece of advice she’d tell her younger self about love : confidence & self-love is important
  • Bouncing from relationship to relationship for a decade & lessons she learned
  • Growing up in Florida with big city dreams
  • Falling for the Attachment Theory
  • How to know when someone should or shouldn’t be dating
  • Dating breaks give us time to focus on us
  • Pros / cons of online dating : Allows us to be more intentional & protective of our time
  • Biggest first date cheat code : grab coffee
  • Advice for males in the dating scene
  • Crafting the perfect online profile
  • Who pays for the bill? Guy, girl or split?
  • Not allowing insecurities to control our life
  • How to keep the fire alive in a relationship when it starts to burn out
  • Importance of communication in a relationship
  • Crossing the “friendship” boundary
  • Express your emotions to people
  • Figuring out your attachment style
  • Marriage in 2021
  • Brining her vision of writing a book to life by shooting her shot
  • Prioritizing sleep has helped with overall well-being
  • Consistency builds success
  • Tips for keeping a clear headspace
  • Going through a rough time in Summer of 2018 & attempting suicide
  • Taking care of yourself first
  • Challenge for the listeners : Reflect on how your dating life has gone thus far, what has made you happy / sad / felt uncomfortable & then create boundaries around what you want / need

Books Referenced

  • Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
  • Attached by Amir Levine
  • Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson

 

Connect with Kirstie!

Instagram : @WordsWithKirstie

Tiktok : @KirstieTaylorr

Website : KirstieTaylor.com

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