In "The Art of We" Episode 66, hosts Dr. Will Van Derveer and Krista Van Derveer take a deep dive into the essence of relationship agreements. Building on the momentum from Episode 65, this discussion explores how couples can effectively create, sustain, and evolve their agreements, and specifically what happens when you make the agreements but then one or both of the partners don’t keep them. 

Navigating the complexities of commitments within a relationship, Dr. Will and Krista address common challenges couples face when agreements are broken or disregarded. They emphasize the importance of trust, learning, open communication, and continuous personal growth in maintaining a healthy relationship. Dr. Will and Krista discuss how breaches in agreements are not failures but opportunities for growth, emphasizing the importance of a supportive and understanding approach in these situations.

The hosts delve into the significance of agreements in a relationship, discussing how they serve as a foundation for mutual goals and dreams, reducing friction and conflicts. The episode sheds light on the necessity of revisiting and adjusting agreements to ensure they remain relevant and supportive for both partners. Through their candid sharing of personal stories, the episode becomes a relatable guide for couples striving to strengthen their bond and resolve conflicts more effectively.

Main Topics Covered:

• Establishing and Upholding Agreements: the significance of agreements in a relationship.
• Learning from Challenges: breaches in agreements are not failures but opportunities for growth.
• Building Trust Through Commitments: trust in a relationship is bolstered by consistently honoring commitments, thereby strengthening the partnership.
• Regular Review and Adaptation: the necessity of revisiting and adjusting agreements to ensure they remain relevant and supportive for both partners.
• Practical Tips and Strategies: for effectively managing and revising relationship agreements, ensuring they align with the evolving needs of the relationship.

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Resources Mentioned: 

• John Demartini

Get in Touch: 

• The Art Of We - Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 
• The Art Of We Website
• The Art of We Instagram 
• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Integrative Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy Training

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