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#67 The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing in Your Relationship with Dr Robert Glover
Why do so many men feel like they’re doing everything right, but still feel lonely, unseen, and resentful?
In this raw and deeply practical episode, I’m joined once again by No More Mr. Nice Guy author Dr. Robert Glover. In this no-holds-barred conversation, we unpack the real reasons men struggle to ask for what they want, receive love, and build lasting relationships.
We explore the covert contracts that keep men stuck in silent resentment. We also unpack the hidden shame around masculine needs and the painful effects of emotional isolation. But this episode isn’t just about naming the problem. It’s a masterclass for reclaiming your power, building real brotherhood, and creating the kind of life and relationship you actually want.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Episode Resources
Stop People-Pleasing.
Start Leading.
15 Questions to Take Back Control of Your Life - From the Boardroom to the Bedroom.
Get the free PDF here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/uy-playbook.
Integration Nation Men’s Community
No More Mr. Nice Guy — Dr. Glover’s book
This episode is all about reclaiming your needs! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at [email protected], and I will see you in the next episode.
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to watch our first interview with Dr Glover, which has received over 5,880 views - Episode 39 "From People Pleaser to Unapologetically You".
THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS
An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.
Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.
When you regularly invest in this type of training:
- You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
- You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
- You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
- You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.
- You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.
All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.
Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.
ABOUT OUR GUEST
Dr. Robert Glover is an author, a marriage & family therapist, a coach, an educator, a sought-after public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.
His groundbreaking book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", has changed the lives of countless men around the world. His other work – including his online courses and his books Dating Essentials for Men and Dating Essentials for Men: FAQ have been just as impactful.
Connect with him on:
Website, Instagram, Facebook
ABOUT YOUR HOST
Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and help them live life to the fullest. He’s a relational growth advocate who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.
Connect with him on:
Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook
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By Gareth Pickering and Matt DahseWhy do so many men feel like they’re doing everything right, but still feel lonely, unseen, and resentful?
In this raw and deeply practical episode, I’m joined once again by No More Mr. Nice Guy author Dr. Robert Glover. In this no-holds-barred conversation, we unpack the real reasons men struggle to ask for what they want, receive love, and build lasting relationships.
We explore the covert contracts that keep men stuck in silent resentment. We also unpack the hidden shame around masculine needs and the painful effects of emotional isolation. But this episode isn’t just about naming the problem. It’s a masterclass for reclaiming your power, building real brotherhood, and creating the kind of life and relationship you actually want.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Episode Resources
Stop People-Pleasing.
Start Leading.
15 Questions to Take Back Control of Your Life - From the Boardroom to the Bedroom.
Get the free PDF here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/uy-playbook.
Integration Nation Men’s Community
No More Mr. Nice Guy — Dr. Glover’s book
This episode is all about reclaiming your needs! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at [email protected], and I will see you in the next episode.
If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to watch our first interview with Dr Glover, which has received over 5,880 views - Episode 39 "From People Pleaser to Unapologetically You".
THE KING'S CIRCLE: A DOJO FOR INTEGRATED LEADERS
An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.
Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.
When you regularly invest in this type of training:
- You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
- You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
- You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
- You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships.
- You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.
All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.
Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle.
ABOUT OUR GUEST
Dr. Robert Glover is an author, a marriage & family therapist, a coach, an educator, a sought-after public speaker, and a seminal figure in men’s self-improvement.
His groundbreaking book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", has changed the lives of countless men around the world. His other work – including his online courses and his books Dating Essentials for Men and Dating Essentials for Men: FAQ have been just as impactful.
Connect with him on:
Website, Instagram, Facebook
ABOUT YOUR HOST
Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and help them live life to the fullest. He’s a relational growth advocate who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.
Connect with him on:
Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook