Has the man you’re seeing started making excuses, seeing you less often, or saying any of the following things:

I need space

I’m not over my ex

I’m really busy right now

I’m going through a lot

I have a lot on my mind

My kids/parents/job really need me

I’m confused

Don’t wait a guy like this out. All of these things and more may be true, but a man who wants you in his life will figure it out, not blow you off.

Think about it, no one with a shred of decency says something like “I can’t stand to spend another minute with you and I really want to go back out and see if I can find someone better so please go away immediately”.

Guys say things like this to soften the blow.

They may even say they’re not sure or they need time, usually because they actually do like you and will miss you, but NOT because they are crazy about you and planning to have a long term relationship with you.

Guys also like to buy themselves a little time to find someone else before they completely let you go, as selfish as it is.

So when a guy trots out these lines, it’s over.

Don’t hang on to shreds of hope, read into everything he says or does for clues that he still cares.

Men who are in it to win it don’t say these things to you.

Let him go and find someone who’s willing to go the distance with you.

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