In episode 68 of the Art of We podcast, hosts Krista and Dr. Will Van Derveer explore the complexities of driving together as a couple, a topic that brings challenges for many couples. They share their own personal challenges together, including how driving styles and passenger experiences can reveal deeper dynamics in relationships, highlighting the importance of communication and understanding. 

The Van Derveers share their concept of "we driving," a collaborative approach aimed at making both the driver and passenger comfortable. They stress the significance of signaling intentions and adjustments in driving habits to accommodate each other's comfort levels. The discussion extends to recognizing and respecting each other's driving preferences, with Will admitting his preference for speed and Krista advocating for a more cautious approach. 

This dialogue illustrates the broader theme of partnership and mutual respect, where both parties work together to find a middle ground that honors each other's needs and boundaries. By sharing their personal experiences and the strategies they've developed to address their driving disagreements, Krista and Dr. Will offer listeners practical advice on enhancing relationship harmony. Their reflections on "we driving" serve as a metaphor for relationship management, underscoring the importance of actively working together to create a supportive and understanding environment, both on the road and in life.

Main Topics Covered:

• Navigating differences in driving styles and passenger experiences within couples, focusing on feelings of control and safety.
• The impact of individual driving behaviors on the partner's comfort and stress levels, including the use of signals and communication while driving.
• The concept of "we driving" as a strategy for couples to ensure mutual comfort and safety, highlighting the need for compromise and understanding.
• The role of communication in preventing and addressing discomfort and fear in the passenger, emphasizing the importance of expressing concerns calmly and clearly.
• Reflections on how managing driving dynamics can mirror handling relationship challenges, underscoring the broader implications for partnership and mutual respect.

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Resources Mentioned: 

• The Art Of We - Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 

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• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Integrative Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy Training

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