Season 1, Episode 9

Today I’ll introduce you to 7 confidence tips to help jumpstart your journey.

I see confidence built up on three pedestals; Thinking, Knowing, and Doing. These tips and strategies all come from my three tiered approach. 

Confidence is something that any of us can attain. It’s really a change of perspective, brought on by taking action. These actions allow you to learn and grow your competence. 

Thinking
Recognize the negative statements you are making about getting back out there are simply opinions, and not truth. 

Knowing
If you know who it is you are seeking to meet, the dating process becomes less chaotic. It is so important to know the type of partner you are looking for before you ever set out to meet anyone. Knowing who you are looking for makes it easier in several ways.

Doing

C. S. Lewis once said “Sometimes the only way to get a quality in reality is to start behaving as if you have it already.”- C.S. Lewis

Doing is taking action. It's where the rubber meets the road. Any change in confidence requires you to take action. Your action plan here for Doing consists of five parts. They work equally well for both men and women. Each of these allows you to take a proactive role in your confidence-building. 

I discuss the Three Confidence Considerations, and how they apply to your social and dating life.

You Must Take Action to Make a Change

Knowledge alone won’t change your behavior. Unless your habits change, nothing changes. Take one step at a time and continue reminding yourself that these small steps will change your perspective, your confidence, and your world.