In episode 70 of the Art of We podcast, Dr. Will and Krista Van Derveer dive into the nuanced world of relational trauma, exploring how past traumas from previous relationships can manifest and affect current relationships. This episode offers deep insights into the nature of relational trauma, the impact of unhealed scars on one's sense of self, and the patterns that emerge as a cry for attention and healing.

The Van Derveers discuss the spectrum of relational traumas, from minor misunderstandings to severe cases of abuse, emphasizing the significance of a compassionate and curious approach towards these patterns. They introduce listeners to the concept that trauma can serve as an opportunity for healing, especially within the context of a supportive and understanding relationship. 

By sharing personal stories and professional insights, their conversation is a testament to the healing potential of intimate partnerships and the importance of mutual support in addressing past injuries. Concluding with practical advice and therapeutic strategies, the episode is not just a deep dive into the complexities of relational trauma but also a guide on navigating these challenges as a couple.

A must-listen for:

• Individuals in new relationships with past traumas 
• Partners seeking to support each other’s healing
• People struggling with trust and vulnerability issues
• Anyone interested in personal growth within relationships

Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, or on your favorite podcast platform. 

Resources Mentioned: 

• The Art Of We - Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements 
• John DeMartini
• Somatic Experiencing - Peter Levine

Get in Touch: 

• The Art Of We Website
• The Art of We Instagram 
• Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Integrative Mental Wellness & Psychedelic Therapy Training

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