In this episode, Erin is joined by Travis Day — a 1/3 Splenic Projector and the founder of the Projector Lounge — for an honest conversation about what it actually takes to live your design.

They talk about what happens after Human Design clicks: when the relief sets in, but you realize that deconditioning isn’t an immediate glow-up… it’s a slow, embodied process that requires patience, presence, and a willingness to be seen before you feel ready.

Erin and Travis share their stories of burnout, health challenges, emotional suppression, and years of trying to function like Generators… and why waiting for the invitation isn’t passive, but often begins with self-expression.

The conversation focuses on what it means to actually embody this work as we move toward unprecedented change in 2027.

In This Episode:

• Why self-expression often precedes recognition (and invitations)
• What waiting for the invitation feels like in the body
• Projector burnout, self-doubt, and the “pretend Generator” years
• Splenic authority as a felt knowing, not a mental decision
• Emotional waves in relationship and why urgency creates distortion
• The difference between calming the nervous system and expanding capacity

About the Guest

Travis Day is a 1/3 Splenic Projector, IHDS-certified Human Design guide, and the founder of Neutrino Seas. His work focuses on helping people move from mental understanding into lived, embodied experience — using self-expression as a pathway out of bitterness and into alignment.

He is also the creator of the Projector Lounge, a community space for Projectors navigating deconditioning, self-trust, and real-world integration.

Connect with Travis

• Instagram: @travis.day
• Website: https://www.neutrinoseas.com
• The Projector Lounge: https://www.neutrinoseas.com/the-projector-lounge-lp

Connect with Erin

• Instagram: @erinxpurdy
• Website: https://www.erinxpurdy.com
• April 2026 Retreat: https://thereclamationretreats.com