This Is For Us

72. Force it until you feel it!


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Hey y’all, welcome back to This Is For Us! This episode is for anyone who has ever looked in the mirror and felt less than. Maybe you’ve told yourself: ❌ “I wish I knew how to do my makeup.”“I hate my hair.”“I have nothing to wear.”

💡 The truth? You don’t need to fake confidence—you need to force it until you feel it. Confidence is built through daily choices, and in today’s episode, I’m sharing five game-changing steps to help you step into your power.

5 Steps to Build Confidence & Own Your Power 

1️⃣ Do Something About It – If you don’t love it, fix it. Stop waiting, start taking action. 2️⃣ Pay Attention to Your Energy – Notice what’s making you feel insecure—and change it. 3️⃣ Prepare Yourself for Success – No more “I have nothing to wear” meltdowns. Be ready. 4️⃣ Create Your Own Personal Style & Routine – Define your look, your energy, your vibe. 5️⃣ Force It Until You Feel It – Walk into rooms like you belong. Act like the main character.

📌 Favorite Quotes from This Episode:

“You don’t have to wait to feel like the best version of yourself. You already ARE. Just choose to see it.”“Confidence isn’t faking it—it’s forcing yourself to take action until you believe it.”“Stop waiting for happiness to show up. CHOOSE IT. Right now.”

Resources & Links

Connect With Me:

  • Instagram: @NoëlRobertsColey
  • Facebook Group: This Is For Us Community
  • Podcast Website: This Is For Us

Additional Resources:

  • Inspo Pinterest Board: Noël’s Pinterest for Inspiration
  • Inventory List: Take Inventory of Your Life
  • My LTK: Shop Noël's LTK

Thank you for spending this time with me today. I hope this episode reminded you of just how powerful, magical, and worthy you are. You don’t have to wait for permission or perfection—you already are everything you’re meant to be.

Let’s stop waiting and start choosing to see it, feel it, and live it. I believe in you, and I’m so grateful to have you here.

Until next time—go be great. 💛

xoxo, Noël

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