b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck

72: Future Diary Follow-up: Building a Bridge to Your Dream Life


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Erin and Nicole take you smack dab in the middle of their Future Diary process as it unfolds. Join alongside them as Nicole discovers a future she cannot live without, and Erin talks her through the steps to make it happen.

What did you write in your Future Diary? If you haven't yet written one, stop right there and carve out 30 minutes to make it happen! What one thing will you not compromise on having? And what one, first step will you take towards achieving it? It's truly that simple. 

We start the episode off with some inspiring music. Erin Hatzikostas has found the perfect song for running, and air-drumming at the gym - Rise Up by Imagine Dragons.

She also talks about an article she helped to write for Well+Good - "It's Been 5 Months Since Pants Died-But Is the Work From Home Dress Code Compromising Productivity."

But after a brief conversation on music, Nicole Licata Grant can escape her homework review no longer: The Future Diary.

Nicole talks about how she had trouble getting into what she thought was the right mindset to write this Future Diary. She realizes that maybe being in a bad place is in fact a good time for her to write. Erin talks about how a Future Diary is not meant to impress people or be fancy writing. They are just supposed to be honest about what your perfect day would be. 

Then they both decide to talk through each of their Future Diaries. Erin asks Nicole to focus on one thing that stands out from her diary. For Nicole it's focussing on creating an artistic outlet: interviewing artists, dancing, writing, and more. So then Erin asks, what would be your first step to do that? Nicole decides she's going to write a blog: a series f funny essays.

Erin also asks her how it would feel to not achieve any of this. How would it feel to never achieve a single thing you wanted to, from the biggest part of your perfect day, to the smallest thing?

Reflecting on the last question, Nicole starts to realize things about her current situation, and how she thinks she should be feeling about life. Erin encourages her to start thinking about trying to impress herself more than those around her. 

Erin then asks Nicole to go out and find five extenders - 5 people who have the success that Nicole wants and share their stories of how they got there.

Erin then reads from her Future Diary. If you think it sounds grandiose, remember this is her third time writing one, and the first two largely came true. That is the point of the Future Diary, if you set out where you want to be in life, you are so much more likely to get there.

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DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. 

Tweetable Comments:

"Do I look like a Hoodlum or what?"

"Nothing has ever made me WANT to run."

"ISn't there a makeup feature on Zoom yet?"

"You can't wait for the perfect mindset to move forward."

"Make it messy. Make it happen. Then make another one."

"The Future Diary is not supposed to impress people."

"We have a lot of societal cue's around women."

"There are things that have me on the hamster wheel and make me feel chained."

"You have to get to a place where you're more concerned with impressing yourself than impressing others."

"I tackle routine shit with the same fervor and energy that I tackle things at work."

"You're either on the Rocketship to success or you're on the street."

"It's like mindfulness and gratitude got put on autoplay for us."

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