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74: An Intimate Conversation Dispelling the Myths About Adoption with Mom at 41 Listener Traci-Ann Delisser
How does Adoption work? Can the Birth Mom ‘take the baby back’? Is the birth mom or birth dad involved in Parenting the kids? And how do you navigate the relationship with the birth mom?
In this Episode Traci-Ann and I discuss:
A Beatiful Quote About Adoption
“Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother.”-Oprah Winfrey
Some of the Biggest Myths About Adoption
Myth: The birth moms are irresponsible or ‘bad’ girls. Truth: Their actions that got them pregnant may not have been responsible, but their decision to find a famiily to raise their baby absolutely was incredibly repsonsible.
Myth: The birthmoms ‘give away’ their babies. Truth: The birth moms make an incredibly difficult and courageous decision to place their babies with another family.
Myth: Your (adoptive) kids are so ‘lucky’ to have you as parents. Truth: As adoptive parents, WE are the lucky ones. We did not adopt out of charity, and are so incredibly grateful to the birth moms who chose us.
Myth: The birth moms ‘give up’ their kids and don’t love them. Truth: It is because of the love they have for their kids, that they decide to place their kids with a mom or family when they are not yet ready to be a mom. They have not given up on their baby, but have made this difficult decision out of love.
What Traci-Ann Would Like Others to Know About Adoption
You can love your child as an adoptive mom as if it was your own, and bond with them from the moment you first meet.
There is no shame in adoption, and no need to hide it from your kids. Tell them the truth. It is their history. Adoption is a blessing.
Related Mom at 41 Episodes
Episode 2: First Time Mom: Tyson’s Story
Episode 3: Kai’s Story: The 36 Hour Roller Coaster Ride to Becoming a Mom Again
Episode 10: Adoption From A to Z
Episode 16: My Family is Weird
How Can you Connect with Traci-Ann?
Traci-Ann’s Website
Email: [email protected]
Mom at 41 Facebook Page
Like the Mom at 41 Facebook Page here and read my posts of Inspiration and Support each day, and from all the other Mommas in the Mom at 41 Community! I respond to every single comment, post, and message here, and would love to Connect with you!
Mom at 41 Newsletter
Subscribe to the Mom at 41 Newsletter here to get Real Momma Stories of Struggle, Inspiration, and the Life Lessons Along the Way! Plus, I’ll update you when NEW Blog Posts come out, and also send you the Balanced Mommy Checklist to help you de-stress, be a better mom, and take care of YOU!
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By Inspiring Interviews with Parenting Experts Deborah Tillman, Josh Shipp, Honoree Corder, Cyma Shapiro, Shawn Fink , and Carl Honore.How does Adoption work? Can the Birth Mom ‘take the baby back’? Is the birth mom or birth dad involved in Parenting the kids? And how do you navigate the relationship with the birth mom?
In this Episode Traci-Ann and I discuss:
A Beatiful Quote About Adoption
“Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother.”-Oprah Winfrey
Some of the Biggest Myths About Adoption
Myth: The birth moms are irresponsible or ‘bad’ girls. Truth: Their actions that got them pregnant may not have been responsible, but their decision to find a famiily to raise their baby absolutely was incredibly repsonsible.
Myth: The birthmoms ‘give away’ their babies. Truth: The birth moms make an incredibly difficult and courageous decision to place their babies with another family.
Myth: Your (adoptive) kids are so ‘lucky’ to have you as parents. Truth: As adoptive parents, WE are the lucky ones. We did not adopt out of charity, and are so incredibly grateful to the birth moms who chose us.
Myth: The birth moms ‘give up’ their kids and don’t love them. Truth: It is because of the love they have for their kids, that they decide to place their kids with a mom or family when they are not yet ready to be a mom. They have not given up on their baby, but have made this difficult decision out of love.
What Traci-Ann Would Like Others to Know About Adoption
You can love your child as an adoptive mom as if it was your own, and bond with them from the moment you first meet.
There is no shame in adoption, and no need to hide it from your kids. Tell them the truth. It is their history. Adoption is a blessing.
Related Mom at 41 Episodes
Episode 2: First Time Mom: Tyson’s Story
Episode 3: Kai’s Story: The 36 Hour Roller Coaster Ride to Becoming a Mom Again
Episode 10: Adoption From A to Z
Episode 16: My Family is Weird
How Can you Connect with Traci-Ann?
Traci-Ann’s Website
Email: [email protected]
Mom at 41 Facebook Page
Like the Mom at 41 Facebook Page here and read my posts of Inspiration and Support each day, and from all the other Mommas in the Mom at 41 Community! I respond to every single comment, post, and message here, and would love to Connect with you!
Mom at 41 Newsletter
Subscribe to the Mom at 41 Newsletter here to get Real Momma Stories of Struggle, Inspiration, and the Life Lessons Along the Way! Plus, I’ll update you when NEW Blog Posts come out, and also send you the Balanced Mommy Checklist to help you de-stress, be a better mom, and take care of YOU!