The Busy Being Born Podcast

#74: Beyond Roles: Amwayi Tsuma on Identity, Mindfulness & Compassionate Living


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In this reflective and grounding conversation, we sit down with Amwayi Tsuma to explore what it means to live beyond fixed identities and social roles. Drawing from personal experience, Buddhist philosophy, and daily mindfulness practice, Amwayi invites us into a gentler, more honest way of being with ourselves and others.

We talk about how letting go of labels like “leader,” “husband,” or “achiever” can reveal a deeper sense of self; one rooted in awareness rather than performance. Amwayi shares how this shift transformed his relationships, helped him navigate addiction and habitual patterns with compassion, and opened space for healthier emotional regulation.

The conversation also explores meditation as a practical tool for everyday life. Not as dogma, but as a form of mental training that builds clarity, balance, and kindness. From breath awareness and daily rituals to forgiveness and loving-kindness, Amwayi breaks down simple practices that support long-term inner change.

At its heart, this episode is about friendship, community, and owning one’s narrative especially within African contexts  as essential foundations for healing and growth. It’s a reminder that awareness, practiced with softness and consistency, can transform both inner life and shared humanity.

Listen in to learn:

  • Why identity goes deeper than roles and labels
  • How awareness helps break cycles of addiction and habit
  • The role of meditation in emotional balance and clarity
  • Why compassion and friendship are central to growth
  • How reconnecting with culture supports self-authorship
  • Resources & Mentions:

    • Bhikkhu Bodhi (Books & YouTube teachings)
    • Access to Insight — accesstoinsight.org
    • Vipassana 10-Day Meditation Retreat
    • Metta Bhavana (Loving-Kindness Meditation)
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