In this reflective and grounding conversation, we sit down with Amwayi Tsuma to explore what it means to live beyond fixed identities and social roles. Drawing from personal experience, Buddhist philosophy, and daily mindfulness practice, Amwayi invites us into a gentler, more honest way of being with ourselves and others.

We talk about how letting go of labels like “leader,” “husband,” or “achiever” can reveal a deeper sense of self; one rooted in awareness rather than performance. Amwayi shares how this shift transformed his relationships, helped him navigate addiction and habitual patterns with compassion, and opened space for healthier emotional regulation.

The conversation also explores meditation as a practical tool for everyday life. Not as dogma, but as a form of mental training that builds clarity, balance, and kindness. From breath awareness and daily rituals to forgiveness and loving-kindness, Amwayi breaks down simple practices that support long-term inner change.

At its heart, this episode is about friendship, community, and owning one’s narrative especially within African contexts  as essential foundations for healing and growth. It’s a reminder that awareness, practiced with softness and consistency, can transform both inner life and shared humanity.

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In this deeply moving conversation, we sit down with Omondi Ochuka: a writer, teacher and author to explore his powerful journey through loss, and the lifelong work of healing. Rooted in creativity, community, and a quiet defiance of conventional masculinity, Omondi’s journey unfolds through stories of family, identity, and the lifelong work of becoming.

He talks about his new memoir, Precursor: An Unfolding, which blends personal stories and poetry on healing, vulnerability, and masculinity. Growing up on the autism spectrum, he navigated academic challenges, resistance to unjust school systems, and found his voice through journaling and creativity.

Turning to his health journey, he opens up about living with cancer since 2011, the emotional and financial strain of treatment, and the profound moment his daughter led a fundraiser for him in Sweden. His story weaves together fatherhood, vulnerability, and the realities of navigating Kenya’s healthcare system.

We also dive into the experiences that shaped him, finding refuge in creativity, and being raised by grandparents whose love held him through some of life’s hardest seasons. At the heart of his philosophy is a simple truth: healing is not linear. It’s an ongoing process that demands honesty, softness, and grace.

This episode is a reflection on grief, masculinity, community, and the courage it takes to remain soft in a world that often demands hardness. It invites us to rethink strength, embrace vulnerability, and hold space for each other’s unfolding.

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In this deeply personal and layered episode, the Busy Being Born duo sits down with Sylvia Karanja, founder of Corner 254 and Media Light Agency, to unpack the courage, clarity, and calling behind her return to Kenya after over a decade in the U.S.

With openness and warmth, Sylvia opens up about her migration journey. From navigating family responsibilities and career restarts abroad, to rediscovering identity and purpose through faith, storytelling, and entrepreneurship. Her decision to move back to Kenya in August 2024 marked not just a physical return, but a spiritual and emotional homecoming.

The conversation goes beyond the complexity of immigrant family dynamics, the weight of being a “firstborn” across continents, and the loneliness that often shadows transition. It also explores how faith and creativity became Sylvia’s anchors, guiding her toward building Corner Networks, a community platform connecting returnees, locals, and dreamers alike through events, storytelling, and shared purpose.

From starting over in unfamiliar systems to founding her own agency, Sylvia’s story reflects resilience, hope, and a deep conviction that purpose unfolds when we dare to come home; in every sense of the word.

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In this inspiring and insightful episode, the Busy Being Born duo sit down with filmmaker Mark Maina, whose journey from computer science student to award-winning storyteller traces the beautiful intersection of discipline, creativity, and vision.

Mark shares how a deep curiosity for technology led him to filmmaking, a path that took him from the University of Nairobi to international recognition at the Cannes Film Festival. Along the way, he studied at Germany’s Film Academy Baden-Württemberg, worked as Head of Post-Production at Nigeria’s EbonyLife, and ultimately returned home to Kenya to build MGreen Entertainment, a studio blending live action, animation, and African imagination.

With openness and warmth, Mark opens up about family, fatherhood, and legacy, exploring how success means little without presence, and how creativity thrives where skill and purpose meet. The conversation delves into the evolution of Kenya’s film industry, the rise of AI in post-production, and the grounded philosophy of a man shaping art from both heart and discipline.

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·        How to transition from traditional careers into creative fields

·        Lessons from working in Kenya, Nigeria, and Germany’s film industries

·        Why skill-building sustains passion in competitive creative spaces

·        How AI is transforming storytelling and post-production

·        The importance of legacy, mentorship, and intentional fatherhood

·        Why creativity begins with discipline and ends with meaning

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·        So Good They Can’t Ignore You by Cal Newport

·        Neophobia (Cannes Official Selection, 2017)

·        Pause for Reflection – hybrid animation/live-action feature (Festival Premiere: Nov 2024)

·        Sugar Mashariki TV series (Season 2 & upcoming Season 3)

·        MGreen Entertainment Studios

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In this rich and layered conversation, the Busy Being Born crew unpack the philosophy, practice, and pitfalls of friendship. Drawing on personal stories, cultural wisdom, and even biblical references, they explore what makes a friend, how friendships are tested, and why some bonds endure while others fade.

From money matters that complicate trust, to the delicate balance of marriage as friendship, to the strategies for cultivating authentic bonds in busy adulthood. This episode is a full-spectrum meditation on how we show up for one another.

The conversation weaves through reliability, joy, and emotional safety as core markers of true friendship, while acknowledging the shifting seasons of life that reshape our circles. Whether it’s early morning breakfasts, quarterly road trips, or the unshakable reconnection after 11 years apart, the hosts examine the diverse ways we hold space for those we love.

Through humor and vulnerability, they also touch on friendship endings, insecurity, value alignment, and the quiet truth that sometimes, letting go is as important as holding on.

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The different friendship models: reliability, non-judgment, and investment

Why money is often the ultimate friendship litmus test

How to balance community connections vs. authentic personal bonds

Why marriage without friendship at its core is unsustainable

The role of honesty, feedback, and value alignment in sustaining friendships

How to navigate natural friendship transitions and endings gracefully

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Lying by Sam Harris

Genesis (biblical reference on companionship)

Sugar & Lime Restaurant, Bellevue – Mombasa Road

DJ Maria's SoundCloud-   – Mukovi Profile 

Marrianne Nungo- @nungomarrianne

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In this candid and reflective “No Guest but Nuggets” episode, the Busy Being Born duo engage in a deep, unfiltered conversation marking five years of podcasting, personal growth, and creative evolution.

Recording from a new studio (wrestling the thrill of improved lighting and the surprise of performance jitters), they open up about what life has looked like lately: parenting wins, shifting priorities, health experiments, and creative milestones.

From Kigondu directing "Kifo Kisimani" (On stage this August 2nd and 3rd at Jain Bhavan), working on high-profile translations, and prepping television premieres, to the joy of Kamande’s six-year-old’s first coherent email (with emojis) , the hosts share stories that are as heartfelt as they are humorous. They unpack Kenya’s political cycles and the role of this generation, this episode balances heartfelt gratitude with honest introspection.

The hosts open up about their ongoing health journeys tweaking protein intake, navigating injuries, and learning to treat both body and mind with patience. They speak candidly about embracing human traits like envy and jealousy with compassion instead of shame, finding tenderness in self-awareness.

Five years in, the duo pause to celebrate the Busy Being Born community, complete with shout-outs to the production team and heartfelt thanks to listeners. It’s an episode that feels like both a pause and a deep breath before the next climb.

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In this richly layered episode, the Busy Being Born duo is joined by Maureen Kunga, an award-winning singer, songwriter, and advocate of the High Court, best known as one-third of the beloved Kenyan music group Elani.

Maureen opens up about her journey of self-discovery, navigating the dual identity of being an introvert in a spotlight-driven industry. From her early years in Lang’ata to singing on global stages, Maureen traces the winding path of following her passion while balancing law school and societal expectations.

She shares the behind-the-scenes story of Elani’s formation, the struggles they faced in the Kenyan music industry, and the emotional rollercoaster of their debut album launch—which landed on the same day as her final law school exam.

The episode also dives deep into Maureen’s personal evolution—her experience with therapy, journaling, and spiritual exploration, as well as her temporary detour into influencer work during the pandemic. Ultimately, it was a return to music that helped her rediscover peace and purpose.

From raw honesty about mental health to fierce advocacy for musicians' rights, Maureen offers wisdom, vulnerability, and inspiration in equal measure.

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In this heartfelt episode, the Busy Being Born duo sits down with Victor Ikawa, a man whose journey embodies resilience, introspection, and the pursuit of purpose. From humble beginnings to facing life's myriad challenges. The two-time national scrabble champion shares stories that are both deeply personal and universally relatable. From policy rooms in Nairobi to dusty fields in rural Kenya, and from corporate offices in Lusaka to lakeside reflections in Kisumu, Victor has walked through life with quiet courage and curiosity.

His reflections on identity, community, and the transformative power of adversity offer listeners a mix of deep and meaningful insights. It’s a warm, honest conversation about growth, purpose, and staying grounded through change.

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Dr. Victor Ikawa (LinkedIn) is an environmentalist, marketer, and seasoned research and strategy expert with over 15 years of leadership experience across East and Southern Africa. He has held leadership roles in major organizations, including Research International East Africa, Land O’Lakes International Development Division (USAID-funded), Celtel Uganda, Celtel Group Netherlands, Zain Group Bahrain, and Airtel Group Kenya, where he led Pan-African research efforts. He later served as Research Director at Research Path Associates and worked at Safaricom, where he served as Head of Research and Insights, following prior roles in Brand, Communications, and Sales. He is currently a director at Snapp Africa, a leading provider of full-stack software solutions and design excellence across the continent, while also pursuing research and biogeography through his YouTube channel, Lost Wings. The University of Nairobi graduate has also led initiatives focused on youth development, governance, and civic engagement. He is also an avid reader, bird watcher, old-school music lover, and believer in the quiet power of storytelling. He’s lived in Kenya, Zambia, and Tanzania, and remains deeply connected to both rural and urban life, able to move between boardrooms and barazas with equal ease.

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In the wisdom of an elder sitting and seeing further than the younger ones can while standing, the BBB duo have a chat with Mohamed Komeja. From Taita to Norway, Tingila to Tanzania, University of Nairobi to University of Oslo, Mohamed tenderly handles the questions from the hosts with as much clarity as his memory allows. Sharing lessons from thirty plus years in marriage; the chat also shines a light on gems from the power of literature, cross cultural experiences, cotton picking, building community and of course lessons from parenting. From conversations with God about mortality, journaling through cancer, to loneliness in a foreign land, this audio only episode highlights the power of mental fortitude and the spirit one has to have when being strong is the only option. The guest observes the present, revisits the past and sees the convergence of the two through ruracios, reflections and serendipitous reconnections with his people, his culture, his country and his gifts.

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In this episode the BBB duo sit with Muthoni Gitau, the original queen of DIY herself and discover way beyond her crafts side. From recent learnings to childhood memories, teen hood trials to the cyclic nature of employment, the episode flows like a movie that Muthoni flamboyantly leads. They talk colour, construction, progress, routine, relations, the thing about employment and lessons in leadership. From finding joy, to the freedom of freelance, wash wash escapades to sex positivity; the episode moves from Kawangware to Lavington, Kileleshwa to Kakamega, hospital beds to street demos and so on! Muthoni’s storytelling makes for a great listen full of lessons and interesting experiences. Recognizing the mind is the forerunner of all things, the guest highlights the power of meditation, productivity hacks, habit tracking, breath work and sound healing. At its heart this episode is really about building trust with the self, healing, following one’s curiosities, what it is like to be a tree and the adventures of the girl with the lion in the photo.

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