One of the biggest frustrations among singles is NOT being able to get a date, here are EIGHT reasons to consider why you may not be dating…

1. It’s not time!!! 

2. You want to get married more than you want to walk with Jesus!

3.  You are bitter!

4. You struggle with impurity!

5. You are trying too hard!!!

6. You are finding your identity in who you date (or if you can get a date) more than you are in a relationship with Jesus!

7. You are willing to compromise in order to go out with someone! If you are a follower of Jesus Christ then compromise can never be a consideration!!!

8. Especially if you are a dude…you are not responsible financially!!!

One of the worst things you could do as a single person is spend so much time evaluating other people and not actually evaluating yourself. — Perry Noble

A person can be so in love with the idea of getting married so much so that their walk with Jesus will suffer. — Perry Noble

Run hard after Jesus and look to your right and to your left and if the person you want to pursue or that is pursuing you is beside you in that run, then they’re probably the one — Perry Noble

You’ve got to ask God for brokenness rather than bitterness so that the bitterness in your life can be healed. — Perry Noble

Getting married, we’re supposed to be better together, not bitter together. — Perry Noble

Self control is a gift given to us by the Holy Spirit — Perry Noble

You can be sexually involved with someone and not be intimate with them. — Perry Noble

Sex without intimacy leads to destruction every single time. — Perry Noble

There's a difference between pursuing and stalking. — Perry Noble

Girls, if you have to consistently throw yourself at a man, that's not the man you need to be with. — Perry Noble

The person that you find your identity in- anyone other than Jesus- they’re ultimately going to let you down. Not because they’re mean. It's just because they're human. — Perry Noble

If you're a follower of Christ them compromise can never be a consideration. — Perry Noble

There’s no such thing as missionary dating. — Perry Noble

If you feel like you have to compromise before the relationship, after the relationship begins there will be nothing but compromise. — Perry Noble

If you want to find a wife, the best thing you can do today is do whatever it takes to get our of debt. — Perry Noble

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