Asking for Myself

8. Why can't I enjoy oral sex? (ft. Goody Howard + Casey Tanner)

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Vulva Insecurities, Oral Sex, and Orgasm Land

Welcome back to Asking for Myself, where I ask all the questions you're too afraid to. Today we’re talking all things oral sex. In this episode, I am joined by sex therapist Casey Tanner and sexologist and educator Goody Howard. And I’ve got a lot of questions. Including?

  • How can people overcome their vulva insecurities?
  • Are vulva insecurities heightened when both partners share the same parts?
  • What’s up with the oral sex gap? Why are blowjobs more normalized than going down on someone/cunnilingus or whatever you want to call oral sex on a vulva?
  • Can we have a healthy sex life if we aren’t comfortable in our own bodies?
  • What the heck is compersion and why is it important for sexual pleasure?
  • How do givers get more comfortable receiving?
  • Is it okay if your partner doesn’t want to go down on you? What can you do in this scenario if it’s an issue?
  • Why is there an oral sex taboo in the Black community?
  • Why isn’t oral sex seen as “real sex”?

    • Trust me, you’re gonna want to tune into this juicy conversation. 💦

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    Asking for MyselfBy Mia Davis
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