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In this episode of Love for Life, Nichole and Ben address a listener whose friends won't stop making judgmental comments about her relationship's significant age gap. They dive deep into why people feel compelled to question unconventional relationships and how to handle well-meaning friends whose curiosity crosses into harmful territory.

This episode is essential listening for anyone in a relationship that doesn't fit society's "normal" expectations, anyone whose friends constantly question their choices, or anyone struggling to defend their happiness to people who claim to care about them. Nichole and Ben explore why age gaps trigger such strong reactions in others, the difference between genuine concern and masked judgment, and the crucial "soft startup" conversation needed to protect both the relationship and the friendships. With research showing that judgmental comments from friends can create doubt even in solid relationships, and studies revealing that external criticism is one of the top factors that leads couples to question their compatibility, this episode offers practical tools for setting boundaries whilst maintaining important connections.

They get brutally honest about when friends' intentions are good but their execution is damaging, why losing the ability to confide in friends puts dangerous pressure on romantic partnerships, and how to address these issues before they create permanent damage. If you've ever felt like you're constantly defending your relationship choices or wondered whether your friends' concerns are valid, this episode will help you distinguish between protective love and disguised judgment.

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