PLAYING-IT-SAFE

82. What's the mindset of a skillful striver?


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It was a true pleasure to discover the work and passion of Sonya Looney; her enthusiasm, laughs, and insights are contagious!


There are many golden nuggets in this conversation about skillfully managing comparison thoughts, rumination, self-doubt, shame, values-based strategies, and much more. 


Key Takeaways


  • The mindset of an athlete
  • The upsides and downsides of over-preparing and over-working
  • How to skillfully manage unpredictability
  • Acceptance of emotions
  • How to deal with a strong attachment to goals or winning
  • Defusion: thought - labeling
  • Goodhart’s law
  • How to manage physical fatigue using acceptance & defusion skills
  • How to go back to your values when your mind gets noisy
  • How to manage comparison thoughts
  • ABC of resilience


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PLAYING-IT-SAFEBy Dr. Z. - Patricia Zurita Ona, Psy.D.

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