We spend so much of our life trying to control people’s opinions of us. If you really take the time to think about how much time you spend thinking “What will they think of me? Will they like what I’m wearing? Did I say that right? Should I try that? What will people think if I try that?” What will my mother think?What will my husband think? What will everybody think? This generalized concept of everybody out there. It is usually a mother most of us are referring to or our friends. really important to remember. You can’t control other people’s minds.

I have this belief that I’m calling the steady - let's say 10 people:Now if their opinion of you was based on you and what you said and what you did, then all ten of those people would have theexact same opinion of you because you are the constant.

They have 10 different opinions of you because their opinion of you is based on them. You may look like their third grade teacher. They may hate you the minute you walk in the door because you look like their third grade teacher who was really mean to them and they are never going to get past it. You may remind them of their mother-in-law. Nothing you can do about that. They may hate what you are wearing. It is just not theirstyle. Nothing you can do about that. They may love what you are wearing. They may remind you of their best friend. They may think you are fantastic because you have the same shoes they do.