Episode 651: The Corkscrew and Other Spicy Tales: A Journey Through Sexual Liberation with Spicy Author Sam L. Feldman.
Step into the vibrant world of 85-year-old author Sam L. Feldman as he shares his provocative perspectives on love, sexuality, and open relationships. In this captivating episode, Sam reads from his award-winning collection "Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances," treating listeners to "The Corkscrew," a story that masterfully blends sensuality with life experience. Affiliate link to Sam's book: https://amzn.to/4lqajtT
The conversation weaves through various themes, from the success of Sam's erotic bestseller to the importance of challenging societal norms around sexuality. Sam's 61-year marriage serves as a testament to his advocacy for open communication and the exploration of desires in relationships. The discussion touches on vital topics including:
- The role of ethical non-monogamy in modern relationships, & ethical non monogamy marriage
- Combating ageist beliefs about sexuality
- The importance of maintaining intimate connections and communication
- The power of erotic storytelling in challenging conservative attitudes
Ready to challenge your perspectives on love, relationships, and sexual freedom? Don't miss this enlightening conversation with a true pioneer of the sexual revolution.
Key Takeaways:

• Open relationships can be celebrated and embraced, challenging traditional views on sexuality.  
• Communication is highlighted as the cornerstone of healthy relationships, even in humorous and unconventional contexts.  
• Literature plays a significant role in promoting understanding and acceptance of diverse sexual experiences and desires.

Timeline: 

00:00:00 - Interview with Sam L. Feldman
00:04:44 - Butch, Kathy, and Sugar's Night
00:11:07 - Writing Erotic Tales and Inspirations
00:13:00 - Miscommunication and Betrayal in Storytelling
00:17:49 - Understanding Ethical Non-Monogamy
00:21:51 - Sexual Revolution and Modern Relationships
00:30:43 - Importance of Printing Your Story
00:33:13 - Challenges in Sexuality After Mastectomy
00:38:42 - Book Selling Challenges and Bikini Culture
00:41:14 - Success and Challenges on TikTok
00:43:27 - Promoting My Book Journey
00:47:12 - Creating a Unique Erotic Narrative
00:50:09 - Validation Through Award-Winning Writing
00:52:18 - AI's Role in Creativity and Art
01:00:24 - Understanding Opinions and Generational Differences
01:03:18 - Empowerment Through Reading and Writing

Connect with Sam L. Feldman: https://www.samlfeldman.com/

Sam's bio:

Sam L. Feldman is the 85-year-old spicy author of the book "Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances" which explores the Sexual Revolution of the 1960s & '70s, non-monogamy, women's liberation and empowerment, and breaking the boundaries of traditional relationship dynamics.

Sam is an excellent spokesperson on love and the many ways it can be explored. Sam has been married 61 years, and in the 1960s found himself at the forefront of what is now the non-monogamy and polyamory movement. A number of the “hookups” he writes about in his book come from his real experiences of being in “the right place at the right time” during the Sexual Revolution. He also says he invented a sex position in this era. A position he's dubbed "the corkscrew” takes three people, unlike his other favorite position: 69. 

 Quotes from Sam L. Feldman
"Don't let them take the joy out of sex."
"These stories may never be told again."
"Communication is the key."
"Sex can relieve stress, can relieve pain, it can boost moods."

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