Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Season 6, Episode 786: Tarah's Unapologetic Take on Kink and ADHD plus the Pleasure of Sex Toys. Tarah is a Sexologist and Certified Sex Educator & Coach.

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Guest Bio:
Tarah is the founder of Forbidden & Found, where she teaches the kind of sex ed most people never got — medically accurate, kink-aware, and refreshingly free of shame. From communication and consent to the intersection of ADHD and kink, she helps curious humans unlearn the cultural scripts that keep people quiet. As a certified sexologist and sex educator, her work spans kink fundamentals, the neuroscience of desire, and the art of asking for what you want. With equal parts candor and clarity, she makes the taboo feel unapologetically human.

Tarah's Links:
Website: https://www.forbiddenandfound.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forbiddenxfound/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@forbiddenxfound 

Discussion Topics: Sex Education, Kink Awareness, ADHD And Sex, Consent In BDSM, Sex Positivity, Sex Toys, Taboo Topics, Sexual Pleasure, Communication In Relationships, Intimacy, Sexual Health, Neurodiversity And Sexuality, Erotic Literature, Sexual Wellness, Sex Educator, Empowerment Through Knowledge, Open Conversations About Sex, Pleasure-Focused Discussions, Breaking Sexual Stigma 

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Season 6, Episode 781: Madison Murray Embodying Erotic Reality and Sharing It With the World, Despite Censorship. Find Madison Murray on Substack at Pretty, Weird Girl and Instagram mygapingmasshole and madisonmrrrrrrr (that's 7 r's!). Madison is the author of "My Gaping Masshole". We had a great chat! We talked about creating spicy erotic content including images, memes, books, stories, and audio. We discussed about the challenges of being a creator with censorship rearing it's ugly head, and coined the phrase PTP for Puritanical Toxicity Pushers, which we both abhor! Listen in to our amazing and fun conversation if you also like content with sex, sexual innuendo, images, and writing, but HATE censorship. EFF censorhip and EFF the puritanical toxicity pushers!

Madison writes and posts on Substack. She also creates audio meditation, embodies erotic reality, she is an artist, a writer, and a creator. She shares where to find her books and content in the episode, tells her story about the Market Basket and her New England focus (her home in the US), Lady Gunn Magazine, and her other run ins with censorship. Find out more about Madison: https://substack.com/@madisonmurrrrrrr

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Season 6, Episode 779: Professional Domme, Educator, and Performer Lady Cinder Shares Domination, Secrets, & Kinks.

The Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast welcomes guest Lady Cinder!

Guest Bio:

A neon-gothic dominatrix, hypnotic goddess, and fire deity — Lady Cinder is both performer and priestess. Her art fuses hypnosis, mindfuck ritual, and celestial theatre into acts of control and surrender. A master of psychological seduction and ritual performance, who transforms obedience into worship and an art unto itself.

Award-winning, multi-nominated, and born, raised, and based out of Los Angeles, California— yet rarely contained by borders as a touring dominatrix whose presence is as coveted as it is rare. What is offered are not sessions, but experiences: immersive descents into desire, fear, and exquisite surrender.

With years of my own experiences crossing vast spectrum of kinks and ritual, I specialize in transforming indulgence into torment, and torment into transcendence. If you like it, I’ll torture you with it — until the boundary between agony and ecstasy dissolves into something unforgettable.

Those fortunate enough to kneel before Me understand: this is not play — this is metamorphosis. I infiltrate your mind, lick your synapses, and rewire your hunger until you no longer recognize yourself — only your need for Me.

Fly Me To You is available for the select few who dare to invite danger and luxury into their own domain. Whether in Los Angeles, on tour, or within the sanctum of your choosing, I deliver not just domination — but a life-altering experience you will never escape.

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Season 6, Episode 776: The Art of Spicy Narratives: A Chat with Erotic Storyteller Nemo Omnis, plus excerpt from '“Hello Beautiful”, written by Nemo Omnis and narrated by Ruan Willow.

Topics of Discussion:

• Erotic Storytelling, Spicy Romance, Human Condition, Intimacy Exploration, Self-Publishing, Writing Process, Erotic Fiction, Literary Freedom, Creative Collaboration, Author Journey, Character Development, Reader Engagement, Publishing Challenges, Erotic Themes, Genre Definitions, Writing Community, Literary Voice, Emotional Storytelling, Romance Literature, Kink Exploration
• Guest Bio: Nemo Omnis is an erotic storyteller of various persuasions, currently historical and spooky. Nemo believes in the exploration of the human condition through the lens of the erotic. By embracing the playful nature of intimacy, their works focus on freedom, beauty, truth, and above all things, love. Nemo is owned by two cats who grudgingly permit them to eat, work, and sleep. They can be found at www.NemoOmnis.me.
• Links: https://nemoomnis.me and https://eroticneutral.substack.com

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Shameless Summit for Women to explore their sexuality and sensuality, Season 3: Reserve your spot in the FREE Shameless Summit, taking place August 24-28, 2026

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Wicked & Spicy Tales: Four short stories of erotic paranormal magic and erotic horror, eerie Twilight Zone-ish... not your typical Ruan Willow book as these stories are mystical, devious, and explore the darker side. These stories are not HEA, but instead are wicked and spicy.
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Season 6, Episode 774: Could the free eyed monster jealousy work as sexy role play in your relationship? Yes! It can! What could jealousy teach you? Learn how Using Erotic Jealousy, and Jealousy in general, can be a Powerful Tool in Sex, Trust, and Intimacy, Featuring Coach Ally Iseman. Did you know that although jealousy is touted as bad by our culture, and in truth it feels bad, it's just information, and can be used as a tool to improve relationships, trust, intimacy, and even give people ways to role play in their sex lives? It's true! Jealousy can be beneficial! Also, learn the differences between jealousy and envy, plus the types of jealousy. Stay tuned to find out more from this week's podcast guest Ally Iseman!

• Bio: Ally Iseman, CRC is an award-winning creator, author, internationally Certified Relationship Coach and NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional who specializes in modern relationship design, unlocking erotic jealousy, and consent and communication. She speaks on stages and screens of all sizes, and is a featured culture commentator and subject matter expert who has been featured in The New York Times, LADbible, Cosmopolitan, AskMen, and more. Ally works with couples and individuals all over the world who are at transition points in their dating and relation-trips. Whether they want to open their relationship to include more people, explore play parties together, or just open up more authentically to each other about their kinks and curiosities, Ally helps them open up without breaking up. She is based in Los Angeles and London.

• Passport2Pleasure.com: https://www.passport2pleasure.com/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allyiseman
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From the podcast host, Ruan Willow:

Ruan's books and audiobooks (affiliate links are in this post): http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/

Shameless Summit, Season 3: Reserve your spot in the FREE Shameless Summit, taking place August 24-28, 2026

Neighborhood Secrets: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsecretssfwcover
Wicked & Spicy Tales: Four short stories of erotic paranormal magic and erotic horror, eerie Twilight Zone-ish... not your typical Ruan Willow book as these stories are mystical, devious, and explore the darker side. These stories are not HEA, but instead are wicked and spicy.
Audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/wickedandspicytalesaudiobook
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Hotwife book: An alternative lifestyle book of wife sharing called Servicing the Dryer Repairman, Laney Gives a Tip https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingthedryerrepairman

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Season 6, Episode 771: Spring Break & Stranded with Her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men, On the Court, Multiple Partners Excerpt. A spicy why choose romance multiple partner sex adventure on the basketball court! Layla plays sex games with the male med students. This novella is full of dark kinks, self declared free use, humilation kinks, BDSM, exhibitionism, and voyeurism. It's a Why Choose Dark Romance with polyamory, New Adult Fiction. Listen to this hot excerpt and enjoy! A hot and spicy spring break adventure none of them will ever forget!

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Across five days and 13 experts, we're exploring sex, desire, Tantra, kink, fantasy, embodiment, intimacy, relationships, receiving, confidence, shame, pleasure, and the many ways women experience and own their erotic nature, specifically for women. Claim your free seat here: https://www.tillystorm.com/a/2148307474/WZq4Y2zo

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Season 6, Episode 769: replay in video version. MMF Threesome Her Body Worship and His Reclaim Erotic Scene, an erotic improv experience created for you by Ruan as she spun the story right off the top of her head as she recorded. Very little editing happened afterwards, this is basically raw right off the top of her head, spinning a tale, a sexy fantasy live as she recorded. This scene is about a married couple named Molly and Brad who want to expand their marriage to include a threesome, with their very willing friend Greg. It's very planned out and they enjoy enacting out their plans, which involve body worshipping Molly and bringing her to multiple orgasms before they enjoy theirs, then Brad reclaims Molly in a scene of domination and submission they both agreed to beforehand. Who said planning isn't fun? They've never done this! They had a blast and allowed for spontaneity in the sexual foray into multiple partner sex. Being sexually spoiled is pure bliss! They are devoted as ever as they know that they are committed to one another, and one another's pleasure. Mutual pleasure is mutual bliss! Enjoy the spicy romance!

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Season 6, Episode 765: Living the Kink Life and Writing It with Author All These Roadworks, Audio version.

Discussion Topics:

Discovering Kink Later in Life

Fantasy vs Reality in BDSM Dynamics

Consent and Safety in Dark Fantasy Exploration

Understanding Kink Beyond Surface-Level Fantasies

Breaking Shame: Kink, Consent, and Sexual Education

Fiction Isn't Responsible to Reality

Fiction as Safe Space for Processing

Media Responsibility and Consensual Adult Desires

Confidence and Communication in Relationships

Age Brings Acceptance of Different Desires

Understanding Kinks and Writing Submissive Characters

Navigating Kink Clubs and Community Spaces

Benefits and Safety of Kink Clubs

Are Kinks Born or Developed?

Why Rope Isn't For Me

Finding Resources and Where to Find My Work

Learn more about the author All These Roadworks: https://alltheseroadworks.com/

Key Takeaways:

• Fantasy and reality diverge significantly in kink practice. Scenarios that are arousing to read or imagine can be mentally exhausting or unsafe to actually pursue, requiring careful discernment between what excites us conceptually versus what works practically.

• Shame is the primary barrier to understanding human sexuality. Darker fantasies are far more common than people admit, but widespread judgment prevents honest conversations about desires that don't reflect actual values or intentions.

• The kink community's framework of consent and safety transforms mental health. Reframing desires through explicit communication and negotiation rather than moral judgment creates psychological freedom and reduces internalized shame around sexuality.

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Season 6, Episode 763: What the Architects of Taboo Can Teach Us About Consent, Intimacy, and Trust with the Kink Consultant Amanda Dames. 

Listen to an interview with The Kink Consultant: On Shame, Desire, and Honest Communication.

Guest Bio:

The Kink Consultant: On Shame, Desire, and Honest Communication

AMANDA DAMES, aka The Kink Consultant, is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix specializing in kink, intimacy, and communication. Through coaching, education, media appearances, and her podcast The Kink Consultant, Amanda helps people explore desire without shame while making kink feel approachable, empowering, and rooted in consent, confidence, and connection. Known for her honest, playful, and accessible teaching style, Amanda has built an online audience of more than 300,000 followers across social media and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women’s Health, POPSUGAR, and Court TV for her expertise in kink and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals and couples communicate openly about fantasies, power dynamics, and emotional intimacy so they can create relationships that feel more authentic, exciting, and fulfilling both inside and outside the bedroom. 

MORE ONLINE: ⁠AmandaDames.com

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Discussion Topics:

Meeting Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant

Sex Education Ignores Female Pleasure and that needs to change, everyone on the planet has been gaslit by culture, society, education, and religion

Shame and Communication in Intimate Relationships

Sexual Health as Mental Health, we can't ignore sexual health because it's a component of mental health

Communication is the Foundation of Kink

Origins and Evolution of Kinks and Fetishes, where do these come from?

Sex Research Deserves Equal Funding and Attention for BOTH sexes and that has not been done well in the past

Instagram Censorship and Women's Health Content,, the social media platforms are unfairly guiding discussions on sexual health, favoring and allowing men's topics, but not women's. They need to stop treating actual body parts as taboo words, especially women's body parts. We need to quit the old Puritanical influence!

Breaking Judgment to Build Better Relationships

Anatomy Matters! Clitoral Sensitivity and Hood Anatomy Explained, we need real teaching and discussions on real anatomy, not hidden blackballed teaching on women’s anatomy

Body Modification, the ramifications, and Personal Autonomy

Risky Decisions and Living to Tell Tales

Where to Find Amanda and Resources

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Season 6, Episode 761: Embracing the Forbidden, Dark Desires, & Creative Freedom with Author A.A. Powers with a dark spicy romance book excerpt at the end of the author interview! 

Discussion Topics: 

Dark Romance, Paranormal Romance, Spicy Romance, Author Interview, Book Series, The Devious Bonds Series, Character Development, Writing Process, Fantasy Fiction, Self-Acceptance, Emotional Healing, Storytelling, Indie Authors, Reader Engagement, Sex Positivity, Creative Writing, Women authors who write romance, spice, and smutty fiction, Minnesota Authors, Book Marketing, Writing Community, Self-Publishing

Be sure to listen to Season 6, Episode 760 to get right into the excerpt: A Devious Awakening, A Dark Paranormal Demon Romance Excerpt from a spicy fiction novel written by A.A. Powers, book excerpt narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Libsyn Directory

A Devious Awakening, get the book (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4akQnpM

Author bio: 

A.A. Powers is the author of The Devious Bonds series, a dark paranormal romance series that explores love, obsession, power, redemption, and the complexities of human desire through fantasy. By day, she works as a procurement analyst and lives in rural Minnesota with her family. By night, she writes stories filled with demons, fated mates, found family, and morally complicated characters.

As both a reader and author of dark romance, Ashley is fascinated by the intersection of fantasy, shame, self-acceptance, and the ways fiction allows readers to safely explore parts of themselves that are often misunderstood or judged.

Learn more about Author A.A. Powers:

https://aapowersauthor.com/

Ruan's New Release, a Dark Romance Suspense Thriller with erotic storytelling: Ruan's New Novel

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