The Magnetic Muse Podcast

87. You’re Not in Love With Him, Babe... You’re Addicted to Proving You’re Worthy (Why We’re Attracted to the Wrong People and How to Break the Pattern) with Kimberly Velez

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What if it’s not love you’re feeling... it’s a pattern playing out?

In this eye-opening episode, I’m joined by trauma-informed manifestation coach Kim Velez to explore the raw truth behind why we stay hooked on the wrong people — even when we know they’re not choosing us. From chasing emotionally unavailable partners to rejecting healthy love without even realizing it, we unpack what’s really running the show: your subconscious beliefs about your worth.

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over a situationship, settling for breadcrumbs, or wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, this episode is your wake-up call — and your roadmap out. Because the moment you stop trying to prove you’re worthy is the moment you start becoming magnetic to the love you actually deserve.


We Chat:

  • Why you can’t out-manifest your trauma
  • How self-worth directly affects who you attract
  • When affirmations become emotional gaslighting
  • Why you keep dating the same man in a different body
  • The real reason you’re not attracted to healthy love (yet)
  • How to rewire your self-concept + break the pattern for good
  • Why radical responsibility = magnetic energy
  • The body’s role in healing your relationship patterns
  • How healing your connection with God impacts your love life
  • Why the love you’re chasing isn’t about him — it’s about your past


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The Magnetic Muse PodcastBy Jordan Laurelle Timchal