Constellation and embodiment work is ultimately

about making us aware of unconditional love in

various situations and choosing it. We say YES to ourselves

and, therefore, YES to the life that we are. Confining

feelings of shame, self-doubt, etc., keep us from accepting

and receiving the love within ourselves. The hurt inner

child in us still believes it does not deserve to be

unconditionally loved. It learned early on that it must

conform to the ideas of others in order to receive the

approval of its parents or other caregivers.