Ah the allure of the man who has a lot going on.

So much on his plate.

He’s successful at work, spends time at the gym, has friends, family, maybe he’s even a Dad.

And you understand what it’s like to be successful and busy, so you give him the benefit of the doubt.

After all, you don’t want to date someone who doesn’t have a life.

But there’s a difference between someone who has nothing going on and someone who doesn’t have time for you and will never be available for the kind of connection you really want.

If you’re serious about finding a man who wants to have a real relationship with you, you must insist on only dating men who are looking for a relationship.

And they have to actually back that up with actions, not just words.

A man who wants to have a relationship acts like it.

Here’s what that actually looks like:

*His words and actions match.

*He calls you (without you nudging him)

*You can count on him to call and show up when he says he will.

*He wants to see you regularly (at least every week)

*He asks if you’re seeing anyone else

*He suggests being exclusive and taking down your profiles

If a man doesn’t do these things within a few weeks, he’s not going to.

So if you’re serious about finding someone to share your life with, find a man who does these things.

And if you’re having trouble with that, I can definitely help you.

There are so many guys out there who would love to do this, I promise.

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