Giiirl, why do boundaries feel scary, selfish, or egoistic? "I am scared of being selfish" this is the numero uno sentence I hear, when clients want to say "no" but end up saying "yes" whoops.

So in this episode, I am not only unpacking why we struggle to set them— but also how boundaries can actually be the ultimate tool for deeper connection.

We’ll cover:

• The difference between inside boundaries (your inner limits) vs outside boundaries (what you allow others to do)

• Why holding boundaries doesn’t make you selfish—it actually invites more love in

• The pressure of being a “perfect, happy couple” and how boundaries can actually make you happier

If you’ve ever avoided setting limits or feared it would ruin your relationships, this episode will give you the tools and pep talk to step into boundaries confidently—while still staying deeply connected.

And if you want more - join us for SELF-BELONGING! We are starting on September 3rd!