I Said What I Said

90. People Pleasing Causes More Conflict than it Resolves


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I didn’t stutter! On this episode we are graced with Nyak’s presence to discuss all things people pleasing. Is it a tool that helps avoid conflict, or does it actively contribute to it? We read out your juicy people pleaser DMs (thanks for sending them) and discuss polyamory and a dust up with a psychic (oops! everyone pray for us😬). Additionally: 

  • Communicating capacity and boundaries in friendships
  • Communication styles over text
  • Overextending oneself and its consequences
  • How to communicate the inability to hold space
  • Appropriate vs. Inappropriate white lies



References


Instagram video on communication types: https://t.ly/VukEu




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